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DedicatedDad
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Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....

11/28/11 08:12 PM

""If the average child support order is $500/month, it comes to a $108,000 over 18 years. If a person used deception to get that kind of money in almost any other act, it would probably be a criminal act with serious repercussions."

The mother is the one who committed the act. Cs is intended for the child, the mother does not directly benefit from cs unless it is misused. It is also questionable that $500 will cover 100% of the expenses a child adds, so financially speaking, the mother (or another party) contributes as well. I don't see this as a get rich quick scheme"

Oh, I'm not labeling it a get rich quick scheme. But, when you add in the possible state contribution, it could be a couple thousand more a month in total costs. Regardless, one shouldn't be rewarded for bad behavior. If she had to pay a price (CS) and the ultimate price (reduced time for deceiving behavior), then justice will have been served.....and the child still has support and the benefit of both parents. It's not the perfect solution, but I can't think of a better one.

I really think their should be the potential of prison time just like there would be in any crime where you steal a hundred grand or more (or say a deadbeat that owes that kind of money from not paying CS), but it's probably not what's best for the child in the situation described.

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OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Redlegg	11/28/11 05:08 AM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	BeckaLeigh	12/01/11 01:27 AM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	SRS	11/28/11 07:18 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	ssmom79	11/29/11 08:15 AM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	SRS	11/29/11 06:25 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	DedicatedDad	11/29/11 07:33 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	SRS	11/30/11 08:41 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Gecko	12/01/11 11:52 AM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	DedicatedDad	12/01/11 01:46 AM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	gr8Dad	11/30/11 10:26 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	spinnerdegrassi	12/01/11 05:56 AM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	SRS	12/01/11 05:09 AM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	gr8Dad	12/01/11 06:23 AM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Redlegg	12/01/11 08:06 AM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Gecko	12/01/11 12:04 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	gr8Dad	12/01/11 08:45 AM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Redlegg	12/01/11 08:58 AM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Gecko	12/01/11 12:23 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	gr8Dad	12/01/11 09:29 AM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	DedicatedDad	12/01/11 09:38 AM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Redlegg	12/01/11 09:48 AM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Gecko	12/01/11 12:39 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	gr8Dad	12/01/11 11:41 AM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Redlegg	12/01/11 11:55 AM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Gecko	12/01/11 12:48 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	gr8Dad	12/01/11 12:09 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Redlegg	12/01/11 12:05 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	gr8Dad	12/01/11 12:11 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Redlegg	12/01/11 12:31 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Gecko	12/01/11 12:55 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Redlegg	12/01/11 01:15 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Gecko	12/01/11 01:44 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Sherron	12/01/11 03:52 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	SRS	12/01/11 07:50 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	gr8Dad	12/01/11 08:35 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	SRS	12/02/11 04:09 AM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Redlegg	12/01/11 04:06 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Sherron	12/01/11 04:12 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	DedicatedDad	12/01/11 04:58 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	RJ1	12/01/11 07:02 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	spinnerdegrassi	12/01/11 07:38 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	DedicatedDad	12/01/11 01:25 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	gr8Dad	12/01/11 12:35 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Redlegg	12/01/11 12:40 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Redlegg	12/01/11 12:51 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Gecko	12/01/11 01:27 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Gecko	12/01/11 01:19 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	gr8Dad	12/01/11 12:43 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	DedicatedDad	12/01/11 08:25 AM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Gecko	12/01/11 12:09 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	DedicatedDad	11/30/11 08:43 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Redlegg	11/30/11 08:59 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	SRS	11/30/11 08:58 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Gecko	11/28/11 12:02 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	RJ1	11/28/11 12:47 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	DedicatedDad	11/28/11 01:50 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Redlegg	11/28/11 01:57 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Sherron	11/28/11 02:08 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Gecko	11/29/11 03:26 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Spring	11/28/11 06:04 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Gecko	11/30/11 01:29 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Sherron	11/30/11 01:39 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Redlegg	11/30/11 02:29 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	DedicatedDad	11/30/11 05:23 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	DedicatedDad	11/28/11 02:32 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	MrsB	11/28/11 02:45 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Sherron	11/28/11 03:00 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	DedicatedDad	11/28/11 08:12 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	ssmom79	11/28/11 03:21 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Redlegg	11/28/11 03:37 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	ssmom79	11/28/11 03:38 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Redlegg	11/28/11 04:17 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Sherron	11/28/11 04:07 PM
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....	Spring	11/28/11 01:55 PM

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