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Re: Today H is upset with me......
      12/03/11 12:24 PM

I agree. I treat my YSS like he was my own child while he has lived in my home. But there are times that rules were ignored or totally broken because of his other BP and my husband didn't want to or think he could do anything about it. I treated my YSS differently when he didn't follow the 'home rules' but in a way I really didn't. When my D acted up I did something similar, I jsut couldn't do so openly or as swiftly with him because he wasn't 'mine'.

Lizk, how hong have you been married and how long as your SD lived with you. I'm wondering if this is a new situation. When my YSS came to live with us he was 11 yo but I was apart of his life since he was 2 yo. He doesn't remember a time that i wasn't apart of his life. Early on my SSs and i had some problems where my husband didn't believe the way they treated me, he had to learn that I wasn't out to get his kids but that they were treating me horribly. Once that was fixed things seemed to be fine. When my YSS came to live with us he already knew how our home worked and just needed to adjust to living without his Mom on a daily basis.

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* Today H is upset with me...... lizk0114 12/03/11 08:13 AM
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. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Loretta   12/03/11 09:54 AM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... annieo   12/03/11 10:46 AM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... BeckaLeigh   12/06/11 03:24 PM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Tweeby   12/06/11 03:50 PM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... BeckaLeigh   12/06/11 03:58 PM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Tweeby   12/06/11 04:19 PM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... BeckaLeigh   12/06/11 09:02 PM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... lizk0114   12/06/11 06:07 PM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Sherron   12/06/11 04:08 PM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... BeckaLeigh   12/06/11 04:16 PM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Cassie23   12/03/11 02:26 PM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... SRS   12/03/11 11:01 AM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... annieo   12/03/11 11:05 AM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... SRS   12/03/11 11:31 AM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Spring   12/03/11 11:41 AM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Miranda   12/03/11 12:03 PM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... SRS   12/03/11 12:00 PM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Spring   12/03/11 12:13 PM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... SRS   12/03/11 12:45 PM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Spring   12/03/11 01:11 PM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Tweeby   12/03/11 12:24 PM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... c_jane   12/03/11 11:55 AM
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. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... youngatheart   12/03/11 07:01 PM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Sherron   12/03/11 07:32 PM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... DedicatedDad   12/03/11 07:40 PM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Sherron   12/03/11 07:49 PM
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. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Sherron   12/03/11 08:40 PM
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. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Redlegg   12/03/11 06:16 PM
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. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Redlegg   12/03/11 06:32 PM
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. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Spring   12/03/11 04:40 PM
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. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Tweeby   12/03/11 12:27 PM
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. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... DedicatedDad   12/03/11 01:59 PM
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. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... DedicatedDad   12/03/11 04:08 PM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Redlegg   12/03/11 04:27 PM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Tweeby   12/03/11 01:12 PM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Spring   12/03/11 01:25 PM
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. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... SRS   12/03/11 09:29 AM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Tweeby   12/03/11 08:53 AM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Cassie23   12/03/11 09:07 AM
. * * Re: Today H is upset with me...... Arden   12/03/11 09:13 AM
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