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elliesmom
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Re: Today H is upset with me......

12/03/11 05:58 PM

My answer to this depends - on how much you want to be married to this man. If its not much - then continue on. Otherwise - I think I would have handled this differently. You are not the girl's mother nd you hve no obligation to her, but you are your husbands wife. In my marriage - I would not refuse to do something inconvenient but do-able so that I can totally wreck my DH's plans. We work things out. Asking that he send a sitter (like your MIL) was a good idea. And if he refuses to do that or can't - then I would say HE is the one not allowing her to go. And I would remind him of that when he gets angry about it.

I am trying to figure out how a child can be so rude you can't ignore it for day. My SKs used to behave as though they were raised by wolves. It was little embarrassing to take them out in public or around my friends, but that is life.

But I have 4 kids (plus 2 SKs), so the days I want to spend 1 on 1 are carefully planned in advance and DH knows he's on kid duty - period. It goes on the calendar and that's that. The reverse would be true - but my schedule is ALWAYS planned with 100% kid duty in mind, since I don't always know when DH will be available and not working and I do not work outside the home. So unless i have apprised him of my plans I don't get in a wad any time he has plans (not often - he's a homebody).

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Today H is upset with me......	lizk0114	12/03/11 08:13 AM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	elliesmom	12/03/11 05:58 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	TGSM	12/03/11 02:04 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	rocketgirl	12/03/11 01:18 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Arden	12/03/11 01:05 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Miranda	12/03/11 12:08 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Loretta	12/03/11 09:54 AM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	annieo	12/03/11 10:46 AM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	BeckaLeigh	12/06/11 03:24 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Tweeby	12/06/11 03:50 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	BeckaLeigh	12/06/11 03:58 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Tweeby	12/06/11 04:19 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	BeckaLeigh	12/06/11 09:02 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	lizk0114	12/06/11 06:07 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Sherron	12/06/11 04:08 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	BeckaLeigh	12/06/11 04:16 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Cassie23	12/03/11 02:26 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	SRS	12/03/11 11:01 AM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	annieo	12/03/11 11:05 AM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	SRS	12/03/11 11:31 AM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Spring	12/03/11 11:41 AM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Miranda	12/03/11 12:03 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	SRS	12/03/11 12:00 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Spring	12/03/11 12:13 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	SRS	12/03/11 12:45 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Spring	12/03/11 01:11 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Tweeby	12/03/11 12:24 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	c_jane	12/03/11 11:55 AM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	gr8Dad	12/03/11 02:10 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	DedicatedDad	12/03/11 01:56 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Redlegg	12/03/11 02:10 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Redlegg	12/03/11 02:12 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	c_jane	12/03/11 04:08 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	gr8Dad	12/03/11 07:54 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	DedicatedDad	12/03/11 04:38 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	youngatheart	12/03/11 07:01 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Sherron	12/03/11 07:32 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	DedicatedDad	12/03/11 07:40 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Sherron	12/03/11 07:49 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	DedicatedDad	12/03/11 07:55 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	DedicatedDad	12/03/11 08:31 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Sherron	12/03/11 08:40 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	DedicatedDad	12/03/11 08:51 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Sherron	12/03/11 09:11 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Sherron	12/03/11 07:50 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	DedicatedDad	12/03/11 07:49 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	SRS	12/03/11 05:02 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	DedicatedDad	12/03/11 06:09 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Redlegg	12/03/11 06:16 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	DedicatedDad	12/03/11 06:24 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Redlegg	12/03/11 06:32 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	DedicatedDad	12/03/11 06:46 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Spring	12/03/11 04:40 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	DedicatedDad	12/03/11 03:06 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Tweeby	12/03/11 12:27 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	c_jane	12/03/11 01:01 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	DedicatedDad	12/03/11 01:59 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	LexieBelle	12/03/11 02:46 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	gr8Dad	12/03/11 03:08 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	DedicatedDad	12/03/11 04:08 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Redlegg	12/03/11 04:27 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Tweeby	12/03/11 01:12 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Spring	12/03/11 01:25 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Spring	12/03/11 12:36 PM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Spring	12/03/11 10:21 AM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	SRS	12/03/11 09:29 AM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Tweeby	12/03/11 08:53 AM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Cassie23	12/03/11 09:07 AM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Arden	12/03/11 09:13 AM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	lizk0114	12/03/11 09:01 AM
Re: Today H is upset with me......	Sadie	12/03/11 08:30 AM

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