javajunkiee
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Re: Thanks!
12/09/11 01:03 PM
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General reply to Mrs B: I understand you're upset, but posting this here and OTOB serves little purpose except to stir drama when things have been quiet, and honestly? You know that.
A)It's not a public service announcement that serves to warn anyone else - not when you won't name names, and not when people here already are very wary of each other. You've been around long enough to know that this group isn't going to change their behavior or who they trust based on innuendo, especially over another drama that revolves around you.
B)If it's not a PSA, then its to satisfy your own need to get the last word in. If that's what works for you, so be it. I doubt it got the reaction from the culprit you were hoping for though - they probably saw your post, laughed, and then felt satisfied that their arrow hit the mark.
Maybe its time to try something different: if you can't ignore the nonsense, confront the culprit. Handling this drama the same way over and over and over again isn't working; their actions are escalating. Bullies are cowards at the core, and there's nothing more cowardly than hiding behind a computer screen while wreaking havoc on someone's life. I say drag them out of the shadows and let them know you're not taking their crap quietly.
...I really don't get their attraction to you. I'd think a board member would've moved on to another poster by now, so their fixation with you makes me wonder if they know you IRL. Just my take on it.
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