Divorce Source: Hubby and I had a very interesting

Encyclopedia

Checklists

Tools

Downloads

Bookstore

Start Your Divorce Today - Premium Divorce Online

You are not logged in. [Login]
NEW USER Registration

DS Home · Community Forums · All Forums/Msg. Centers
NEW USER Registration · Search Community Forums · Help

Divorce Source Community Forums >> Stepfamily Issues

LexieBelle
Carpal \'Tunnel

Reged: 11/07/10
Posts: 3680

Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting

12/21/11 10:31 AM

Absolutely agree Cassie! Having an absent/disapproving/etc father figure will likely push her to find a man, ANY man who will "be there". And if she doesn't have a good male role model EMOTIONALLY she may not know what to even look for.

Another aspect is the rejection piece. The gentleman I am dating now and I have talked about this extensively. When the people who are "supposed" to love you? Don't, or make it feel like they don't? You don't know what it is.. and you'll likely accept something less than what's healthy because it's what you know. Something is better than nothing.. That's all you're worth.. I could go on and on.

With the parents NOT going? It's just going to reaffirm what she ALREADY likely feels. I'd say her likelihood of realizing a relationship is unhealthy? Will go down. Or if she does? There'll be another one. It's just how it works.

I know it for myself. I can see it in my own daughter, at 5. There's a male presence lacking and she'll look to plug it with.. whomever. I realize that's what she did with exSO. And it's actually been a good thing that it did NOT work out.. good teaching experience frankly. That no, NOT every boy is the right boy or that ANY boy will do. Absolutely not.

I've also learned from my own childhood experience what not to repeat. Definitely a conscious effort on my part b/c that's not my "natural" tendency. I have to know it's there.. that tendency.. and deliberately not do it. You can make your disapproval known, in a healthy way, but not be a dousche about it. They're being dousches.

Post Extras

Entire topic
Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sadie	12/19/11 03:35 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Gecko	12/20/11 02:02 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Miranda	12/20/11 02:10 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Gecko	12/20/11 04:26 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Char9	12/20/11 12:22 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	elliesmom	12/20/11 12:44 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/20/11 12:58 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	javajunkiee	12/20/11 12:40 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	ssmom79	12/19/11 03:39 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Cassie23	12/19/11 04:02 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Char9	12/20/11 09:39 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sadie	12/20/11 05:27 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Loretta	12/21/11 12:30 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	SweetLight	12/20/11 11:45 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sadie	12/21/11 05:25 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	SweetLight	12/21/11 09:52 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	ssmom79	12/21/11 10:03 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	RJ1	12/20/11 07:04 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	ssmom79	12/20/11 10:09 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/20/11 10:06 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	M5M5	12/21/11 07:13 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/21/11 08:04 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	KiwiGirl	12/21/11 09:12 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sadie	12/21/11 10:28 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	ssmom79	12/21/11 10:38 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Cassie23	12/21/11 10:20 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	M5M5	12/21/11 12:46 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Debbie_L	12/21/11 01:24 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	spinnerdegrassi	12/21/11 01:40 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	M5M5	12/21/11 07:04 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Reilly	12/22/11 05:42 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	M5M5	12/22/11 06:47 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	spinnerdegrassi	12/21/11 07:29 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Arden	12/22/11 02:13 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	ssmom79	12/22/11 02:18 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/22/11 02:54 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Arden	12/22/11 02:26 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	ssmom79	12/22/11 02:41 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Arden	12/22/11 03:10 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	ssmom79	12/26/11 04:55 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	M5M5	12/21/11 10:52 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	gr8Dad	12/22/11 07:11 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 08:18 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	gr8Dad	12/22/11 08:58 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 09:03 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	gr8Dad	12/22/11 09:06 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	spinnerdegrassi	12/22/11 09:12 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 09:14 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	gr8Dad	12/22/11 09:25 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 09:29 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/22/11 09:45 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	gr8Dad	12/22/11 10:01 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/22/11 10:26 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 10:04 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	gr8Dad	12/22/11 10:06 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	M5M5	12/22/11 12:13 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	gr8Dad	12/22/11 12:24 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	M5M5	12/22/11 12:41 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 12:58 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/22/11 01:28 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 01:34 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Arden	12/22/11 02:03 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/22/11 01:38 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 01:40 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/22/11 02:48 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/22/11 10:22 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 10:28 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/22/11 10:31 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Loretta	12/22/11 10:35 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 10:36 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/22/11 10:41 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 10:52 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 10:08 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 10:10 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	googledad	12/22/11 10:11 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	googledad	12/22/11 10:12 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 09:57 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	spinnerdegrassi	12/22/11 12:59 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	M5M5	12/22/11 01:23 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	googledad	12/22/11 10:07 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 09:59 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 09:16 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	spinnerdegrassi	12/22/11 09:37 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 09:06 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/22/11 09:44 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	M5M5	12/22/11 12:11 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/22/11 12:36 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LeAnne	12/22/11 01:02 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/22/11 01:15 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	spinnerdegrassi	12/22/11 01:03 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 01:08 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/22/11 01:17 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	M5M5	12/22/11 01:28 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/22/11 01:35 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	M5M5	12/22/11 02:24 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/22/11 03:27 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 07:05 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 07:08 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/22/11 07:28 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 07:34 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/22/11 08:18 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/22/11 09:13 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/23/11 09:32 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	ssmom79	12/26/11 08:00 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/26/11 09:38 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	SRS	12/27/11 07:51 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/27/11 09:54 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	spinnerdegrassi	12/22/11 07:22 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/22/11 09:02 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sadie	12/21/11 08:33 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	M5M5	12/21/11 10:53 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Debbie_L	12/21/11 04:02 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	javajunkiee	12/21/11 10:52 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Cassie23	12/21/11 02:19 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sadie	12/21/11 02:33 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	ssmom79	12/21/11 02:56 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/21/11 02:29 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Miranda	12/21/11 10:38 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Cassie23	12/21/11 01:40 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	spinnerdegrassi	12/21/11 10:41 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	ssmom79	12/21/11 10:40 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Miranda	12/21/11 10:44 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	youngatheart	12/21/11 05:03 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/21/11 10:46 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/21/11 10:31 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	gr8Dad	12/21/11 10:35 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	spinnerdegrassi	12/21/11 10:38 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	spinnerdegrassi	12/21/11 10:31 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Miranda	12/21/11 10:40 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	ssmom79	12/21/11 10:41 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sherron	12/21/11 10:33 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	LexieBelle	12/21/11 09:32 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Char9	12/20/11 12:18 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	youngatheart	12/19/11 04:07 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Sadie	12/19/11 04:47 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	Goodmom	12/19/11 08:31 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	ssmom79	12/20/11 07:50 AM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	youngatheart	12/19/11 05:55 PM
Re: Hubby and I had a very interesting	annieo	12/19/11 05:30 PM

Extra information

1 registered and 7 anonymous users are browsing this forum.

Moderator: dsAdmin

Forum Permissions
      You cannot start new topics
      You cannot reply to topics
      HTML is disabled
      UBBCode is disabled

Rating:

Thread views: 8872

Jump to

Divorce Source Home

UBB.threads™ 6.5.1.1

Resources & Tools

	Start Your Divorce Several Options to Get Started Today.		Online Divorce Tools Keeping it Simple to Get the Job Done.
	Download Center Instantly Download Books, Guides & Forms.		Discount Books Over 100 of the Best Divorce & Custody Books.
	Negotiate Online Settle your Divorce and Save.		Custody Scheduling Make Sure You Document Everything.

Easily Connect With a Lawyer or Mediator

Have Divorce Professionals from Your Area Contact You!