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LexieBelle
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Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)

12/28/11 02:12 PM

Yeah, I go through this with dd all the time.. not needing friends like that. Too much of my genes I think.. she just gravitates to girls who need "fixing"...

Anyway, what I said was very simple. Not hard to understand. Be thankful you have a nice friend who is willing to let you take back something you gave her. That's RUDE. Don't do it again. If you do, she won't be your friend anymore, because **I** say so. I'm EXTREMELY disappointed in your behavior. Completely unacceptable.

And I walked away. She was pretty near tears but I doubt it's cuz she actually felt bad. She just doesn't like being admonished in any way. She has no remorse, no capacity for sympathy, none for empathy either. She's just a mean mean little girl. The afterschool teachers try to keep them separated.. altho less so recently b/c dd is handling herself better about it. And for the record, this isn't "my" issue, like I'm being oversensitive.. "Mean" as a label, I got from the afterschool staff. and she is, she's just a mean little girl. there's something missing. Like I looked at her today, right in the eye.. and there's nothing there. Like with dd, you can see sadness, you can see acknowledgement.. this girl doesn't have that.

Reilly: Yeah, I've already doused the relationship a LOT. It was christmas, dd did so much for them. Made cards, made paper stockings.. bought cards. Just a whole big deal. She would have been devastated not to see them Christmas. We were going to go to a movie but I nixed that.. and I won't be rescheduling that part. They'll be at her birthday party I presume and then there'll be another big break. I really do try to limit contact.. I've even considered pulling dd from this afterschool program bc of how this girl is and the drama she causes with dd but I've decided against it... Ex is more leaning towards pulling dd out of there too but I'm not sure it really "solves" the problem, you know?

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OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/28/11 01:33 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	gr8Dad	12/29/11 11:34 AM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/29/11 01:41 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	onerose	12/29/11 02:32 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	Loretta	12/29/11 11:46 AM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/29/11 02:02 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	ssmom79	12/29/11 02:23 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/29/11 02:49 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	Loretta	12/29/11 03:18 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/29/11 03:32 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	Loretta	12/29/11 07:26 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/29/11 09:40 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	elliesmom	01/03/12 05:05 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	Cassie23	12/29/11 11:59 AM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	Goodmom	12/29/11 06:10 AM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	Gecko	12/28/11 05:56 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	youngatheart	12/28/11 03:30 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	Debi	12/28/11 04:33 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	youngatheart	12/28/11 04:56 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/28/11 05:42 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	Cassie23	12/28/11 05:58 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/28/11 03:46 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LeAnne	12/28/11 04:08 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	SRS	12/28/11 04:30 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	youngatheart	12/28/11 04:02 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	javajunkiee	12/28/11 04:22 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	ssmom79	12/29/11 07:56 AM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/29/11 08:17 AM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/28/11 06:19 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	javajunkiee	12/28/11 06:33 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/28/11 07:20 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	Miranda	12/28/11 06:55 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/28/11 08:01 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	spinnerdegrassi	12/28/11 06:24 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	Reilly	12/28/11 04:43 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	SRS	12/28/11 03:49 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/28/11 05:46 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	SRS	12/28/11 05:49 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/28/11 06:29 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	Tweeby	12/28/11 06:56 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/28/11 07:36 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	Tweeby	12/28/11 07:47 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/28/11 11:45 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	SRS	12/28/11 03:39 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	Loretta	12/28/11 02:24 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/28/11 02:32 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	SRS	12/28/11 02:36 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/28/11 02:39 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	SRS	12/28/11 02:44 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	SRS	12/28/11 02:10 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	ssmom79	12/28/11 02:00 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/28/11 02:18 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	Debi	12/28/11 01:59 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/28/11 02:26 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	Spring	12/28/11 02:33 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/28/11 02:46 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	Cassie23	12/28/11 03:30 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	Cassie23	12/28/11 03:27 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/28/11 03:39 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	ssmom79	12/29/11 07:49 AM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	SRS	12/28/11 03:47 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	SRS	12/28/11 02:30 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/28/11 02:37 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	SRS	12/28/11 02:39 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/28/11 02:43 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	SRS	12/28/11 02:49 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/28/11 02:54 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	ssmom79	12/28/11 03:03 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	ssmom79	12/28/11 03:01 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	ssmom79	12/28/11 01:48 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/28/11 02:12 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	SRS	12/28/11 02:19 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	BeckaLeigh	12/28/11 08:39 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/28/11 09:32 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	BeckaLeigh	12/28/11 09:48 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	DedicatedDad	12/28/11 11:25 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	BeckaLeigh	12/29/11 12:01 AM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	DedicatedDad	12/29/11 10:19 AM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	ssmom79	12/29/11 10:34 AM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	DedicatedDad	12/29/11 11:29 AM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	ssmom79	12/29/11 01:40 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	LexieBelle	12/29/11 11:34 AM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	DedicatedDad	12/28/11 02:23 PM
Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)	Reilly	12/28/11 01:39 PM

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