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LexieBelle
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Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)
      12/28/11 02:54 PM

What was hurtful SRS? That her behavior was unacceptable? Really? That's hurtful? You'd better call CPS on me then b/c I tell my own daughter that when she's misbehaving. That you don't give things and then take them back? That's mean? Umm.. that's a pretty basic social norm isn't it?

You have this perception apparently of me in this kid's face screaming bloody murder. Not so. My voice was extremely flat and calm.. not raised much above a whisper. i wasn't in her face, there was no finger wagging, not a thing. i said what I said very calmly and nicely. And I meant every word.. none of which was "mean". Her behavior WAS rude, it IS unacceptable and she WON' be socializing with my child if she pulls it again.

Do I feel bad she got teary-eyed? Not even the REMOTEST bit. She wasn't REMOTELY sad she was ANGRY. She got caught. And I called her on it. As I've done before with other things. Which, by the way, I've handled nearly identically, right in front of her mother, with her mother's blessing. Oh and she cried.. full blown.. those times. today's reaction was mild :)

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* OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle 12/28/11 01:33 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) gr8Dad   12/29/11 11:34 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/29/11 01:41 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) onerose   12/29/11 02:32 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Loretta   12/29/11 11:46 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/29/11 02:02 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) ssmom79   12/29/11 02:23 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/29/11 02:49 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Loretta   12/29/11 03:18 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/29/11 03:32 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Loretta   12/29/11 07:26 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/29/11 09:40 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) elliesmom   01/03/12 05:05 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Cassie23   12/29/11 11:59 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Goodmom   12/29/11 06:10 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Gecko   12/28/11 05:56 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) youngatheart   12/28/11 03:30 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Debi   12/28/11 04:33 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) youngatheart   12/28/11 04:56 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 05:42 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Cassie23   12/28/11 05:58 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 03:46 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LeAnne   12/28/11 04:08 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 04:30 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) youngatheart   12/28/11 04:02 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) javajunkiee   12/28/11 04:22 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) ssmom79   12/29/11 07:56 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/29/11 08:17 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 06:19 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) javajunkiee   12/28/11 06:33 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 07:20 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Miranda   12/28/11 06:55 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 08:01 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) spinnerdegrassi   12/28/11 06:24 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Reilly   12/28/11 04:43 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 03:49 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 05:46 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 05:49 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 06:29 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Tweeby   12/28/11 06:56 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 07:36 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Tweeby   12/28/11 07:47 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 11:45 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 03:39 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Loretta   12/28/11 02:24 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 02:32 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 02:36 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 02:39 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 02:44 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 02:10 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) ssmom79   12/28/11 02:00 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 02:18 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Debi   12/28/11 01:59 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 02:26 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Spring   12/28/11 02:33 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 02:46 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Cassie23   12/28/11 03:30 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Cassie23   12/28/11 03:27 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 03:39 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) ssmom79   12/29/11 07:49 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 03:47 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 02:30 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 02:37 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 02:39 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 02:43 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 02:49 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 02:54 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) ssmom79   12/28/11 03:03 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) ssmom79   12/28/11 03:01 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) ssmom79   12/28/11 01:48 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 02:12 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 02:19 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) BeckaLeigh   12/28/11 08:39 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 09:32 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) BeckaLeigh   12/28/11 09:48 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) DedicatedDad   12/28/11 11:25 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) BeckaLeigh   12/29/11 12:01 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) DedicatedDad   12/29/11 10:19 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) ssmom79   12/29/11 10:34 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) DedicatedDad   12/29/11 11:29 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) ssmom79   12/29/11 01:40 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/29/11 11:34 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) DedicatedDad   12/28/11 02:23 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Reilly   12/28/11 01:39 PM

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