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Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate)
      12/28/11 07:47 PM

I understand about saying no to the relationship especially at school. If you tell them they can't be friends than they will be friends just to show you that you can't control them. I would limit ALL outside of school contact with this family. It is sad that the twins are a package deal, just because they are twins doesn't mean they can't have different friends.

Not to be mean but why would you let your DD go over this this girls home, the Mom said she is overwhelmed with her own kids why add another child to the mix? I understand that she was doing you a favor but is that the environment you want your child to be in?

I do think your giving your DD mixed signals over this friends. On one hand you tell her that it is unacceptabel but yet you allow the behavior and the friend over to your home and allow here to go there. It wasn't until the kids were older and able to call me themselves that I would allow them over to others home who I normally wouldn't approve of. FTR, this was before cell phones being so common.

Reread what YOU wrote about this friend's mother and think is this a place you really want your DD to go to? Sometimes we may be a little too close to see the signs.

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* OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle 12/28/11 01:33 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) gr8Dad   12/29/11 11:34 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/29/11 01:41 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) onerose   12/29/11 02:32 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Loretta   12/29/11 11:46 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/29/11 02:02 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) ssmom79   12/29/11 02:23 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/29/11 02:49 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Loretta   12/29/11 03:18 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/29/11 03:32 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Loretta   12/29/11 07:26 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/29/11 09:40 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) elliesmom   01/03/12 05:05 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Cassie23   12/29/11 11:59 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Goodmom   12/29/11 06:10 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Gecko   12/28/11 05:56 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) youngatheart   12/28/11 03:30 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Debi   12/28/11 04:33 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) youngatheart   12/28/11 04:56 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 05:42 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Cassie23   12/28/11 05:58 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 03:46 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LeAnne   12/28/11 04:08 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 04:30 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) youngatheart   12/28/11 04:02 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) javajunkiee   12/28/11 04:22 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) ssmom79   12/29/11 07:56 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/29/11 08:17 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 06:19 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) javajunkiee   12/28/11 06:33 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 07:20 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Miranda   12/28/11 06:55 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 08:01 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) spinnerdegrassi   12/28/11 06:24 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Reilly   12/28/11 04:43 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 03:49 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 05:46 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 05:49 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 06:29 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Tweeby   12/28/11 06:56 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 07:36 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Tweeby   12/28/11 07:47 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 11:45 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 03:39 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Loretta   12/28/11 02:24 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 02:32 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 02:36 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 02:39 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 02:44 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 02:10 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) ssmom79   12/28/11 02:00 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 02:18 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Debi   12/28/11 01:59 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 02:26 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Spring   12/28/11 02:33 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 02:46 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Cassie23   12/28/11 03:30 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Cassie23   12/28/11 03:27 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 03:39 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) ssmom79   12/29/11 07:49 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 03:47 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 02:30 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 02:37 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 02:39 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 02:43 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 02:49 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 02:54 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) ssmom79   12/28/11 03:03 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) ssmom79   12/28/11 03:01 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) ssmom79   12/28/11 01:48 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 02:12 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) SRS   12/28/11 02:19 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) BeckaLeigh   12/28/11 08:39 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/28/11 09:32 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) BeckaLeigh   12/28/11 09:48 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) DedicatedDad   12/28/11 11:25 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) BeckaLeigh   12/29/11 12:01 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) DedicatedDad   12/29/11 10:19 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) ssmom79   12/29/11 10:34 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) DedicatedDad   12/29/11 11:29 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) ssmom79   12/29/11 01:40 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) LexieBelle   12/29/11 11:34 AM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) DedicatedDad   12/28/11 02:23 PM
. * * Re: OT: Christmas - asking for a gift back (Debate) Reilly   12/28/11 01:39 PM

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