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Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old
      01/05/12 09:17 AM

[quote]I suppose 50/50 could be difficult for some kids. The solution then is obvious. Mom can visit on Wednesday nights and see the child every other weekend. Then it won't be a problem. [/quote]

--------->> I'm with Goodmom. it doesn't necessarily work for all kids. Wouldn't have worked for mine either.

My ex used to see our daughter weekly, no overnights.. HORROR SHOW. 7 hours a week would fvck her up for DAYS. it was so obvious, the daycare would comment "hmm, you go home this weekend?? She's sooo different". Because she had skipped a week going to dad's.

Today we do every other weekend, ONE night. We did a couple of weeklongs.. DISASTROUS. Total disasters. Even just two nights aren't good. Just tried one at Thanksgiving.. just not good. That's not even MY assessment, since I'm not there, that's HIS assessment.

For MY child, maybe someday she'll get better with it. If not, as Goodmom said, she has A relationship with her dad, and it's healthy as it's going to be given the type of guy her dad is with her.

But 50/50 with her? Would be probably THE most detrimental thing that could ever happen. Take 2 years of progress, throw it out the window and ensure she's a mess for years to come. Absolutely no way. I'd fight that with every thing I had if it were ever suggested.

And given Dad has said, point blank, he can't handle our child on more than a day or so basis? i don't think switching custody would be a good idea. (my ex is the guy that when I said I was having her seen by a psychologist a couple of years ago said, and I quote "good, maybe they'll decide to just put her somewhere. She's not normal")

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