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Re: Fifteen years and counting!
      01/06/12 01:53 PM

Ah, Kiwi Girl -- how much coincidence is there in life? I remember many "tough love" comments you had made to me in the past, and I am sorely in need of some of "that" today. So, it was particularly fortituous that you posted on this board recently and I can address this to you.

Due to a number of factors (all not within my control)my "past" life has been triggered quite a bit since the beginning of this new year. Keep in mind that this has got to be the year when I start making some changes albeit big or small because there is no comfort in the uncomfortableness that I have been existing in for the last several years.

I address this to you Kiwi because you were always forthright and honest and I valued your opinions even if they smarted a bit -- actually that is when I knew how right on the money you were!

I am just going through a very sad period right now where I look behind, look at the present and look to the future and say - really, is this all there is? I seem to have lost the threads of hope that I believed in even after the divorce and just wonder what is it that I should do next (now)?

I like you, love (adore) being a grandmother. But, like many of my friends, I know that position is wonderful but it is not about "me." I love being with my children and grandchildren, but at the end of the day / night, I am alone with myself and I tired of that feeling and this reality.

So, I need a jumpstart for this year. Any practical (and magical would be appreciated) suggestions?

Very glad to read your posts and all the other old-timers -- can't say enough about how this board kept my sanity for a couple of years when the going was really tough!
Take care and happy new year - Bacall

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* Fifteen years and counting! NancyD 12/31/11 07:11 PM
. * * Re: Fifteen years and counting! NancyD   01/01/14 02:31 PM
. * * Re: Fifteen years and counting! Redlegg   01/02/14 06:47 AM
. * * Re: Fifteen years and counting! KiwiGirl   01/04/12 08:15 PM
. * * Re: Fifteen years and counting! bacall   01/06/12 01:53 PM
. * * Re: Fifteen years and counting! Debi   01/06/12 08:57 PM
. * * 11 years but not counting.. Annie7676   01/07/12 07:20 AM
. * * Re: 15 years also... The_Wizard   01/14/12 11:52 AM
. * * Re: Fifteen years and counting! Heather   01/02/12 06:28 PM
. * * Re: Fifteen years and counting! voltage   12/31/11 08:58 PM
. * * Re: Fifteen years and counting! Patrice   01/01/12 08:43 AM
. * * Re: Fifteen years and counting! voltage   01/01/12 08:16 PM
. * * Re: Fifteen years and counting! NancyD   01/18/12 10:10 AM
. * * Re: Fifteen years and counting! Patrice   01/01/12 08:46 AM

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