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Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces.
      01/09/12 06:42 PM

Gr8dad - I don't know your personal situation, but you just sound like a bitter ncp. My ex and I both signed our parenting plan. In fact, its the basic MO state parenting plan with little changed. The medical portion is not changed at all from the standard. If he didn't read it and signed it, is that my fault? Not only that he signed it twice - our orig parenting plan was poorly written, so when I took him back a year and a half later because he claimed he couldn't "afford" child support and hadn't paid anything, the judge insisted that the standard MO parenting plan be used. In both plans it stated orthodontist care was to be covered 50/50 by both parties. And it does not say anywhere it has to be medically necessary whatever that means. Its not like I volunteered her to have braces for fun.
I have asked my ex for very little. I only ask that he pay his CS (which the state has to garnish because he couldn't pay it on his own) and that he pay his part of medical (which he does not pay btw unless he feels like it and lets it add up over YEARS). I don't ask for any extracurriculars or any other costs a kid normally has from time to time. In fact, he has come to my door to pick up DD bragging about the new wheels on his truck or how he just bought a truckload of fireworks for Independence day or how he's bought the newest smart phone. And I just grin and nod because if I don't I might lose my mind. And I only get $316 a month in CS. So please tell me how I'm trying to stick something to him or how he probably can't afford it. If you ask me, he could very possibly be trying to stick it to me because he knows no one will enforce the medical part.

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* Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina 01/01/12 10:48 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Goodmom   01/28/12 06:36 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. NikkiL   01/09/12 01:10 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Sherron   01/09/12 01:47 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. youngatheart   01/01/12 11:14 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/02/12 12:15 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Tweeby   01/02/12 07:27 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Renny   01/02/12 12:34 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Renny   01/02/12 10:14 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/02/12 10:30 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/02/12 08:20 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/02/12 08:33 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/02/12 08:54 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/02/12 10:10 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/07/12 01:23 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/07/12 07:29 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. youngatheart   01/07/12 09:55 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/08/12 10:06 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/08/12 07:32 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/08/12 09:07 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Sherron   01/08/12 09:25 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/08/12 09:37 PM
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. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Goodmom   01/28/12 06:49 PM
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. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/09/12 11:04 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Sherron   01/09/12 11:27 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/09/12 11:36 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. NikkiL   01/09/12 02:14 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/09/12 06:42 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/09/12 06:44 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Pops_IL_CP_Dad   01/09/12 08:02 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/09/12 09:10 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Pops_IL_CP_Dad   01/09/12 09:27 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/10/12 07:14 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Pops_IL_CP_Dad   01/11/12 02:27 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/28/12 01:40 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Pops_IL_CP_Dad   01/11/12 07:41 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. NewMexPop   01/11/12 09:45 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Sherron   01/09/12 11:55 AM
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. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/09/12 12:19 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Sherron   01/09/12 12:22 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/09/12 01:01 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/07/12 10:41 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/07/12 09:44 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Renny   01/02/12 06:13 PM
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. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. youngatheart   01/02/12 12:26 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. youngatheart   01/02/12 12:33 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/01/12 11:04 PM
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