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Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces.
      01/09/12 09:27 PM

Contempt for nonpayment of support or medical expenses is a pretty cut and dry thing. You shouldn't need an attorney. (And you sure shouldn't have had to "pay thousands" for an attorney for a contempt petition before--unless you didn't really have a case.)

But if you use one, you should request fees, too. If he loses (and most do), he will have to pay your fees.

Look, if he was ordered to pay, he was billed, and he refused to pay, that's contempt. The burden is on HIM to prove that he did not willfully and contumaciously fail to pay what the court ordered him to pay.

Of course, you could choose to just let it go... You might as well -- Because he apparently has your number and isn't going to pay because he knows you aren't going to do anything about it, anyway.

I file against my ex every 4 or 5 months. No attorney. Fill out a petition and notice of hearing, send it on, file appropriate papers with the clerk, set a date and bingo bango. We're in court a month later. Having a judge tell her she will go to jail unless she pays within ten days is only way she will pay a single dime of support.

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* Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina 01/01/12 10:48 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Goodmom   01/28/12 06:36 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. NikkiL   01/09/12 01:10 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Sherron   01/09/12 01:47 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. youngatheart   01/01/12 11:14 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/02/12 12:15 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Tweeby   01/02/12 07:27 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Renny   01/02/12 12:34 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Renny   01/02/12 10:14 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/02/12 10:30 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/02/12 08:20 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/02/12 08:33 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/02/12 08:54 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/02/12 10:10 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/07/12 01:23 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/07/12 07:29 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. youngatheart   01/07/12 09:55 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/08/12 10:06 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/08/12 07:32 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/08/12 09:07 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Sherron   01/08/12 09:25 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/08/12 09:37 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/09/12 07:08 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Goodmom   01/28/12 06:49 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Sherron   01/09/12 08:14 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/09/12 08:26 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Sherron   01/09/12 08:35 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/09/12 08:59 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Sherron   01/09/12 09:07 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/09/12 09:15 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Sherron   01/09/12 09:26 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/09/12 11:04 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Sherron   01/09/12 11:27 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/09/12 11:36 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. NikkiL   01/09/12 02:14 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/09/12 06:42 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/09/12 06:44 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Pops_IL_CP_Dad   01/09/12 08:02 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/09/12 09:10 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Pops_IL_CP_Dad   01/09/12 09:27 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/10/12 07:14 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Pops_IL_CP_Dad   01/11/12 02:27 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/28/12 01:40 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Pops_IL_CP_Dad   01/11/12 07:41 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. NewMexPop   01/11/12 09:45 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Sherron   01/09/12 11:55 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Sherron   01/09/12 12:07 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/09/12 12:19 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Sherron   01/09/12 12:22 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/09/12 01:01 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/07/12 10:41 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. despedina   01/07/12 09:44 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Renny   01/02/12 06:13 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. Sherron   01/02/12 06:48 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. hanzblinx   01/02/12 11:03 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. youngatheart   01/02/12 12:26 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. youngatheart   01/02/12 12:33 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. gr8Dad   01/01/12 11:04 PM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. M5M5   01/02/12 01:32 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. youngatheart   01/02/12 02:19 AM
. * * Re: Can't get ex to help pay for braces. M5M5   01/02/12 02:21 PM

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