m2schmitty
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I'm in a bad place
01/11/12 02:13 PM
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Hello,
I just stumbled upon this website. I have not posted anything about this before so here it goes. I am going through a divorce that is going to be finalized on 1/26/2012. We separated on 9/27/2011. We had been married for 7 years and have been together for 10 years. We have 2 children.
Our marriage started out rough, she had an affair one month after we got married. I so didn't want to give up so early in the marriage that we decided to move forward. 2 years after the affair we decided to try for baby number one and he was born in 2007. From that time one, life was good (or at least I thought it was). We did a lot of home projects and spent time together as a family. In 2010, we became pregnant again and bought our "forever home." Again life went on, we were doing a lot of projects on the new house and we spent time together as a family. I was fine with the way things were.
In September, my wife came to me and told me she wanted a divorce. I was blindsided. From that point on I kept searching for an answer and begging her to try to work things out. She said that we have never had an emotional connection and that wasn't going to work for her anymore. Later I have found out that she started dating someone she works with soon after we separated (or at least, that is what she says). He now works on what was my "forever home." and is with my soon to be ex-wife.
I honestly don't know how I am going to make it through this. I am so depressed and angry. I never wanted the divorce and I was always trying to get her back. I can't stop being concerned with what she is doing and with who. I just don't want to be divorced. I feel like I will never really get over this. I started going to the gym and I cherish every moment I am with my 2 boys. That still doesn't seem to be enough for me to keep moving forward. Any advice?
Thank you,
Michael
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