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Eve
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Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old

01/12/12 10:28 AM

Well,........I never said I would leave with the kids rather than give their dad access to them. I would have had no problem with scheduled parenting time and short overnights with their dad, and along with that, any unscheduled time he wanted to take or see them would be fine. I was just addressing what I have seen and heard from moms of babies and toddlers (NOT older children) when the children go to the dad's house for 5 or more days at a time, with mom not seeing them until they come back to her for her 5 - 7 day stretch.

Like I said, if you can hand off your 9 month old for a week, and feel fine, great,....more power to you! But, I think something is wrong with YOU if you can truly do that and not feel like your heart has been torn out. And, maybe, just maybe, much anamosity between the parents could be alleviated if those moms with strong maternal instinct were not forced to be away from their little ones for long stretches.

Evidently, many of you paint everyone with the same brush,and they are "drama queens" or need "psychiatric assistance" if they raise an issue you don't want to deal with or discuss. When, in truth, it is the way many moms feel because they are suppose to feel that way.

Again, you cannot relate because you probably never felt that depth of feeling. But, hey, be glad you didn't have to deal with those feelings....it is gut wrenching.

Edited by Eve (01/12/12 10:38 AM)

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Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	onmyown5	01/02/12 12:09 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	c_jane	01/06/12 11:01 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Maury	01/06/12 04:04 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	ssmom79	01/06/12 03:56 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	M5M5	01/06/12 03:48 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/06/12 12:17 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	annieo	01/06/12 11:24 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/06/12 12:20 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Sherron	01/06/12 12:27 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/06/12 12:41 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Sherron	01/06/12 12:46 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/06/12 01:20 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Sherron	01/06/12 01:25 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	ssmom79	01/06/12 10:23 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Debi	01/03/12 09:34 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Eve	01/05/12 02:42 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/05/12 05:31 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Goodmom	01/04/12 08:13 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Debi	01/06/12 08:36 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	M5M5	01/06/12 09:25 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Eve	01/09/12 12:22 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	finz	01/16/12 11:27 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	DedicatedDad	01/17/12 07:05 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Eve	01/19/12 03:45 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	ssmom79	01/19/12 03:51 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	dadinva	01/19/12 10:35 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Renny	01/20/12 09:47 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	dadinva	01/20/12 10:00 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	dadinva	01/20/12 10:05 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Goodmom	01/20/12 05:43 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Renny	01/20/12 10:24 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	dadinva	01/20/12 10:33 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Eve	01/20/12 05:58 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/20/12 06:16 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	annieo	01/21/12 12:42 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Eve	01/22/12 05:16 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Goodmom	01/23/12 05:14 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Eve	01/23/12 11:22 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	DedicatedDad	01/23/12 11:55 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	M5M5	01/23/12 12:33 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/22/12 05:38 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/20/12 10:00 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	ssmom79	01/09/12 12:02 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Eve	01/10/12 11:57 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/10/12 12:02 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Eve	01/11/12 04:32 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Sherron	01/11/12 05:02 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	youngatheart	01/11/12 09:40 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Eve	01/12/12 10:28 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	ssmom79	01/12/12 03:07 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Eve	01/12/12 04:34 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	DedicatedDad	01/12/12 06:58 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	RJ1	01/12/12 07:40 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	youngatheart	01/12/12 08:37 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Eve	01/12/12 10:38 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/13/12 12:04 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Eve	01/13/12 06:55 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	c_jane	01/13/12 08:10 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	youngatheart	01/13/12 08:40 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	M5M5	01/13/12 08:50 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Eve	01/13/12 09:57 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	M5M5	01/13/12 05:37 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Eve	01/13/12 05:59 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	M5M5	01/13/12 07:34 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Sherron	01/13/12 09:57 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	DedicatedDad	01/13/12 11:07 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Eve	01/14/12 05:38 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	ssmom79	01/16/12 03:14 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	javajunkiee	01/15/12 06:20 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/14/12 09:51 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/13/12 03:13 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	youngatheart	01/13/12 10:20 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Eve	01/13/12 11:07 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	youngatheart	01/13/12 02:09 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	ssmom79	01/13/12 11:46 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Eve	01/13/12 02:08 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Renny	01/13/12 11:30 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/13/12 03:22 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Eve	01/13/12 04:21 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/13/12 06:28 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Sherron	01/12/12 11:01 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/12/12 06:16 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	ssmom79	01/12/12 05:50 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Sherron	01/12/12 04:50 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/12/12 11:56 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	SRS	01/12/12 11:13 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Eve	01/11/12 07:05 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Sherron	01/11/12 07:23 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Eve	01/11/12 09:02 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	M5M5	01/11/12 11:51 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Sherron	01/11/12 09:28 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/11/12 09:20 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	SRS	01/09/12 06:39 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	M5M5	01/09/12 12:47 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/04/12 09:11 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	DedicatedDad	01/04/12 10:04 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	LexieBelle	01/05/12 09:17 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/05/12 09:37 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	LexieBelle	01/05/12 10:19 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/05/12 02:25 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	LexieBelle	01/05/12 08:03 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/05/12 09:02 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	LexieBelle	01/05/12 09:04 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/05/12 10:23 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	LexieBelle	01/06/12 07:57 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/06/12 12:19 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	DedicatedDad	01/05/12 08:08 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	LexieBelle	01/05/12 08:39 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	DedicatedDad	01/05/12 08:43 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	LexieBelle	01/05/12 09:03 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	DedicatedDad	01/05/12 11:00 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	LexieBelle	01/05/12 02:23 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	SRS	01/02/12 05:48 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/02/12 02:47 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Renny	01/02/12 06:19 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	SRS	01/02/12 06:47 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	Renny	01/02/12 08:35 PM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	CAFamilyLaw44	01/03/12 01:08 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	gr8Dad	01/03/12 06:28 AM
Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old	garnet	01/02/12 02:10 PM

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