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Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old
      01/12/12 10:38 PM

Please!......I "may want to stop"? Why? Because I might offend someone? First of all I have ONLY been talking about babies and toddlers here, NOT kids say, 7 years and up. And I am NOT saying dads shouldn't be with their children and parent as much as moms. I am NOT saying dads don't feel sad and miss their kids. I am NOT saying there aren't dads that do as good as or a BETTER job than many moms.

I am just saying females that give birth are hard wired to feel great distress when a baby or toddler is away from them. If you research and read you will educate yourself about this very real phenomena. The harmone oxytocin promotes nurturing and bonding and women have more neural receptors for oxytocin than men do and pregnancy gives them still more! Breast feeding pumps even more of this "bonding" harmone into the female body. This continues through the early life of the child for the mother. Males do have a drop in testosterone and a rise in progesterone (I think) which helps them feel all warm and fuzzy when the birth gets near. But, the testosterone goes back to fairly normal levels about 6 weeks after the birth of their child. Moms not so lucky if the baby is taken away from her. Her "hard wiring" cannot understand this, though her mind is trying to deal with it.

And fist pump......sometimes! My ex has our kids 50-50 now, and they are twin 16 year old girls.......I have to admit, I have had a good laugh thinking about the drama and bickering they can put him through.....and it always makes me smile when I think of him with a vacuum in his hand!

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* Typical overnights for under 2-year-old onmyown5 01/02/12 12:09 PM
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