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Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old
      01/13/12 06:55 AM

"So how do they parent equally without the child........" Well, that is a tough one. Maybe parents can't parent TOTALLY equally in the early years. Maybe they have to make sure they live near each other so Dad can have the kids all day during his week, but Mom picks them up at night. Maybe Mom could handle 3 nights a week away, instead of 7. The idea is to set up a schedule that gives Dads as much parenting time as possible, yet does not rip the heart out of the mother, causing much anger and strife between the parents. Please understand I am only talking about moms that honestly feel great emotional and physical distress when having to deal with being away from their toddlers. As the kids get older and the mom's mothering harmones fall, she will be much more receptive and willing (and glad) to let them go for more and longer periods away from her, and the natural progression of biology will allow her to send them off to dad for a week or more at a time.

There was a poster earlier in this thread that said she felt this way, but did not share those feelings with anyone. Those were natural, normal feelings, nature gave moms for good reason, you were not a drama queen and you should not feel they were wrong.

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