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Re: Typical overnights for under 2-year-old
      01/20/12 09:47 AM

" I've heard this attitude "professionally" referred to as the golden uterus complex. And it has everything to do with mommy and nothing to do with child."

I'd say the mother-child bond has to do with evolutionary biology and the preservation of the species. The evidence that the mother has a biological imperative to nurture and protect her young is everywhere in other species. And saying it has "nothing" to do with the child is surely wrong. The child needs to be loved.

But biology doesn't trump social attitudes. Studies supporting this or that position in a gender-specific argument are tainted by cultural biases in their design. So the argument comes down to a political battle. At this point fathers have made tremendous progress towards their goal of 50/50 parenting and no child support. Neither position, favoring women or shared parenting, is necessarily right or wrong. As a a society we do what we have to do. The Israelis raised their children in kibbutzims for practical and strategic reasons. I'm sure there are studies showing that their children are happy, well adjusted individuals. But that doesn't mean it it's ideal for us here in the US.

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