I don't see where I ever said this behavior is or was okay. I don't see where I have excused anyone either.
I stand by the what I said, there was a post by M5 that led me to look at your court papers. No, I don't think she posted it to lead people there. It was in one of those ridiculously long threads. It was towards the end when the thread was dying down. M5 had many posts in a row, where she was answering, defending you or challenging people/posts. Chances are if I had not been home sick for several days I probably would have never read it and we wouldn't even be having this conversation.
I read most of the posts, posted today and I see where someone said Miranda posted the site. I honestly don't remember Miranda at all, so I don't think I read that post. But, yes it os possible M5 was answering or agreeing with her that led me to that page. I know what was posted was not a direct link and it had to be searched. Didn't take but a few minutes. I do remember some old of your husbands driving records popping up first though.
I remember it came after some hoopla about you posting at another site. You were acting like you had no idea what that was about and saying you would love to know just what site it was you were posting at. I remember M5 defending you and agreeing with you. That went on until someone had enough and basically said,, oh for crap sake, the site is, xxxx. I remember feeling bad for M5 that she played into you hands about that and then it was brought out there was a site and you were aware of it all along. I guess that is why I paid a little more attention to her posts. Maybe I was wrong about her, but at the time I felt she really didn't know you were posting elsewhere. When I saw that other post, I clearly remember feeling bad at the time thinking in her zest to defend you she unwittingly revealed where you court docs were.
Should I have looked...probably not, but I did and I am sure I am not the only one. Do I think it is alright that I know where they are, no. I was very uncomfortable with the amount of information available through them.
That is why I had to wonder why you kept on taunting, engaging and daring people to look things up, take their best shot, so to speak, contact your lawyer/ex and all that.
After poking the tiger aka troll over and over you tried to act surprised when it finally bit you. When you clearly were not innocent in any of it.
It seems to me like you were playing a very dangerous game, knowing the amount of information available to people. Even as far as the last thread you started here. I have read that e-mail to your ex and not one time was DS mentioned. Only facebook and your other sites. I thought it to very careless of you to draw the attention of that here, when DS was not even involved.
Then again, you know your life better than me and know what is best for you. But, the bottom line is, everything I have learned about you came from either you or one of your close friends and defenders. Not once have I ever heard or read anything from the ones you think are against you.