Cassie23
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Re: Nail? Yes
01/24/12 06:33 AM
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my words: But, the bottom line is, everything I have learned about you came from either you or one of your close friends and defenders. Not once have I ever heard or read anything from the ones you think are against you.
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That is why I posted.
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So you did know that MrsB was posting on another site and that was just a little slapstick routine you came up with to what, amuse yourselves? Trick posters who were putting real time thoughts into answers?
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This is late in the game, but I feel as though the reason why anyone can look up JL's court documents goes wayyyyy back. Way back when someone (eta: not a "friend" or "defender") splashed JL's real name and her X's name on this site. How else would anyone be able to look up the information? Either you were FB friends with her or saw her name splashed on here and looked it up.
As far as the "other board" from what I remember someone asked is there a board that you ALL- like there was a group of us- the very clique we all get accused of being part of- go to? JL answered with no, that there isn't. Just because SHE and maybe two other people go to another board doesn't mean we all do. It was in that context, I didn't even check out the other board until maybe a month ago. I wasn't invited- I remember years back people talking about ivillage, however there wasn't a "group" here that was part of the other board. And even if I remember correctly it was always just JL and YAH that sometimes visited another board- I never knew about anyone else.
As for the current stuff- well obviously, if someone knows JL's info they can look up her case. It's public information. I was already informed by JL about the current situation and when a trial was set for. I didn't need all the details and like anyone who has been to court in the past- your X can ask for anything and they often do. It does not mean it will be granted.
It just saddens me that this many people have no problem getting involved in someone else's child custody/CS dispute. That so many people went and read the documents and that there is a push to prove that every little thing JL says has some form of dishonesty to it. Is it really THAT important to a bunch of strangers???
Lastly, I would LOVE for SRS to take her own advice and ONLY post on topics where she has been in those shoes worn by the one the trolls post about. Where are her little rescuers reminding HER that it isn't right to kick someone when they are down or make light of situation? You just end up looking as more foolish than you suggest JL is.
I really had hoped this board to get back to be a support forum and maybe those you who cannot stand certain posters would just stop trying to out them? In the end, what good does it do? Do you feel vindicated? Can you sleep a little better at night knowing all you do after reading the court documents? In having doing so or writing about it- has it changed your life any? One would assume not. So why waste all this space? Get back to the little things- we all have children/spouses or family to love and be grateful for. Can the disdain for JL be inferior to the fact that she has a child in the midst of all this? Can't people let it go for the sake of the child? The court will figure out what needs to be done in the eyes of the law and as for the rest- we each answer to ourselves, our families and God, if we so choose.
Edited by Cassie23 (01/24/12 06:39 AM)
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