shellc1971
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Re: Paramour
02/12/06 08:34 PM
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OK>>>Here is the whole story....This man and I divorced in 2003. Yes, we had problems. He was a semi-controlling man and I could not deal with it. So we divorced and continued to live together for several months. After a while, I just got tired of all of the fighting. (I didn't know at the time that I was suffering from severe hormone deficiency and depression.) I moved and we continues to see eachother every weekend. We got along great. One night, I told him to leave and not to come back. This was my doing, not his.
During this same time, he found a large mass in his stomach. All the doctors had him scared to death telling him they thought it was cancer. When I told him to leave, he confided in Lynette, who was a longtime friend of his.
She proposed to him. He told her he loved her as a friend but nothing more. He was still in love with me. She was fine with that. She said that in case he did have cancer, she didn't want him to die alone. He did not take anything from her. She did not pay his bills. He still lived in his own house 90% of the time. He did not use her (and she states the same). She did not pay his bills...he had his own income from being a police officer in Houston, his own rental property, etc. Pre-nup? No, I don't think there was. That was her decision, as I had one with him. See nothing but sterling actions from him? Hardly! LOL I know him too well!
When I said "mean old woman" I was making a general statement. L is considerably older than I am. Same age as ex hubby. When he left, she became very negative towards me. She never liked me from the very beginning. She disliked me and my children, although I was never anything but nice to her. (honestly) Now that they are getting a divorce, she is even more [censored] off because he came back to me. He did not find out he did not have cancer until 2 months AFTER he left her. But she is causing me and my children an undo amount of stress. She has called me and hung up numerous times. She has hired a PI to spy on me and my parents (my dad is terminal and doesn't need the harassment either)...and the list goes on. The "law" says I can't do anything because she hasn't threatened me...
There. I think I covered the majority of the story...I know, it still doesn't look good from any viewpoint. I was told by ex hubby's attorney that my financial statements could be subpoenaed (sp??) . But I dot see what that has to do with anything. I just see it as more harassment.
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