I totally agree, LB. I don't think about many of the people here during my day. However, when someone posts about JL and the PMs start flying, I get irritated. I was mad about being called names by JL and being accused of being "the stalker" by her frenemies when I am nothing of the sort. She doesn't have a real stalker, btw. That is just a sympathy thing she does to get attention.
BTW, if everyone is so smart, think about this. A person's future behavior can normally be predicted by their past behavior (which is why we call references on job applicants, use credit scores when determining lines of credit, and do Performance Based Interviewing for hiring).
If a person has lied to you in the past about money or being arraigned, your husband screwed around with you when he was married to his kids Mom, or they lie about having a stalker they will most likely lie to you again.
You have every right to feel that way SRS, but then YOUR rules have to apply to everyone- including YOU. You say that M5 stalks you, you ask her not to respond to you because you have her on ignore. JL has asked the same of you. You have the same problems with JL that many have with you. I have caught you in a FEW lies on here regarding your X- as you suggest, same as JL. In the end, you look more foolish than that of JL because you are preaching something that you, yourself, do.
I actually can't stand when people say--- I am getting PM'ed, people are PM'ing me-- whose business is it, BUT YOURS that you are receiving PMs? Just remember if YOU are getting PMs I can assure you some(<--ETA) of those same people are probably PM'ing about YOU as well.
Edited by Cassie23 (01/26/12 10:29 AM)