annieo
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Re: Nail? Yes
01/27/12 11:15 AM
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I probably should have clarified when I say they and them I mean the new names (ie. nope, sampoe, sockpuppets)- the ones who came here just to "play" with JL not those who have been here.
"Let's see, who keeps starting the threads? Like Cassie said - guess not everyone has to play by the same rules. She hit it spot on. If I don't post - I'm afraid and can't stick up for myself and others have to stick up for me. If I do - I'm feeding into it and am mentally ill..."
I did not say you are starting them but you play along once they are there and you don't have to. You are the one with everything to lose (they know where you are etc...) if the whole stalker fed stuff to my ex shyt is really going on and it goes further than the board who have you actual location etc... THAT is what would scare ME.
I do not "get it" why you are concerned with sticking up for yourself when it could create harm to you - your information is "out there" and they know how to get to you.
It isn't "fair" that the rules do not apply to everyone but everyone doesn't have stalkers and court and people out to get you because everyone doesn't have their personal information ie. court issues "out there" that is why you should quit responding.
If you are being stalked. watched, your ex is here or someone he knows or what have you it should not matter to you to defend yourself YOU are the one in danger - of course if it is all a game then carry on...
I do no think LB contacted your ex I think someone irl that you either told or they overheard or it was in passing who know both you and your ex looked it up. If you tell people about your issues with your ex (as much as you have said here) at some point someone (probably a friend that was both of yours) will help either you out or the ex out. It makes more sense for an irl person who found out about the boards and now your ex, his attorney, and a GAL knows. Again if it is a game then carry on.
I don't know one way or the other but am going off that someone knows you and is willing to derail your life and it includes your child and that is why I personally (if in this situation) would stop engaging it just isn't worth it defend myself, not defend myself, fair, not fair, etc... my safety and the safety of my child would win out above all else and I would have disappeared long ago when my ex was notified or what have you. I may still lurk but I wouldn't post - but that is just me I will always be safety first especially with not putting my child at risk.
I don't know you but if this is all true the stalking etc.. and you are still engaging with those (nope, sampoes etc) who can do harm then I will never understand and I will quit trying to understand why you don't care about your and your sons safety and hope that it never goes further than these boards.
btw I don't think your afraid, can't stick up for yourself, or that you are mentally ill, I think you want those who do believe you to keep believing in you and that it matters so much to you that you will put your safety and the safety of your son second to maintain those friendships. I think your friends should encourage you to be safe and not engage and if they want to defend you then they can but it isn't their lives that are in a precarious situation YOURS is.
If the whole thing isn't real then carry on - maybe I should just think it is all a game then I wouldn't need to be concerned with the safety issue for you and your son.
Another sermon from me - sorry
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