Sooo why the big tadoo about him getting contacted then if she's thought for years he knew about this site? Not understanding that one.
How do you know any of her real life stuff today if you're no longer friends?
Also, her ex wasn't sent to THIS site, he was sent to Delphi. That's where the person provided the postings from. THIS site? Was never mentioned by name. That's why I can't figure out why she'd insinuate ME as the perpetrator. I only went to Delphi at HER invitation (which she lied to board moderators about) and I totally hated the format and that, as bad as we may be here? They're just totally and completely psychotic over there. Off the wall. I would never have gone back there ever, if friends of mine on this board hadn't told me what was going over there and her lying to the moderators over there. I went back, and NEVER posted.. STILL.. I just communicated with the moderators about her lying about me.
So anyway, whoever the contacter was knew about Delphi.. and probably more importantly, her history on IVillage too. So my guess is that it's one of the people who moved from IVillage over to Delphi. Here? Never mentioned specifically. However, the contacter was supposedly a MAN. At least if you believe how they signed their emails.
As for your getting de-friended. Yes, that's pretty much how it rolls. She got herself into a hissy fit with me the last time because she had sent me a bunch of correspondence back and forth between her and her ex and she'd sent me other stuff that she'd sent and I'd made my comments that basically if **I** were in her shoes, I wouldn't be talking to him like that necessarily but.. as I told her, I'm a total pansy in that regard ;) HOWEVER, what I took exception to, was her position, on board, at one point, that she miss love and light in corresponding with the ex. When I pointed out that I knew differently because of the emails I'd personally seen, welllllllll, I was disclosing personal information blah blah blah. So basically the drill is, as long as you're blowing sunshine up her butt and telling her she's right ON BOARD, it's all good. I learned you CAN challenge her (if you do it the right way) PRIVATELY, just don't do it PUBLICLY. That's the key.