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javajunkiee
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Reged: 06/01/08
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Re: Is separation a good thing?

02/04/12 05:53 PM

"I am questioning my trust for her more than I ever have, I don't know if I will ever get over the fact that she abandoned me (emotionally while she was with me) and then physically when she moved away at a time when I needed her the most (what happened to "in good times and in bad"), disrupted the relationship I have with my daughter without a second thought, and I question whether I can ever TRULY believe in her again, regardless to how well we are individually."

Your wife is probably questioning the exact same things of you. How can she trust YOU to stay sober (aka emotional abandonment), quit partying (replacing her with other interaction), provide a stable environment for your daughter (done things wrong in your relationship).

As strong as you may become apart, you still need to work on the root cause of your split. If your visits to CA consist of 48 hrs of holding hands and bouncing your daughter on your knee, nothing is getting resolved. I'd recommend finding a marriage counselor that will see you on a Saturday and incorporate that into your weekends. You will want to find out sooner rather than later if your marriage is salvageable; once your wife establishes residency in CA she can file for divorce and custody there instead of IL.

ETA: You should really start your own thread. Net etiquette says its not very polite to jump on someone elses thread; its kind of like interrupting someone else's conversation. Just a friendly fyi.

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Edited by javajunkiee (02/04/12 05:55 PM)

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Is separation a good thing?	jcamis	08/02/08 09:44 PM
Re: Is separation a good thing?	Holding_on_2	02/03/12 05:51 PM
Re: Is separation a good thing?	javajunkiee	02/04/12 05:53 PM
Re: Is separation a good thing?	yregna	08/05/08 01:22 PM
Re: Is separation a good thing?	johnson27	08/05/08 01:43 PM
Re: Is separation a good thing?	finz	08/03/08 12:56 AM
Re: Is separation a good thing?	Airor	08/03/08 09:56 AM
Re: Is separation a good thing?	Airor	08/03/08 09:58 AM
Re: Is separation a good thing?	jcamis	08/03/08 09:59 PM

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