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Wanted to come back here....
      02/13/12 08:01 PM

I was on this exact forum many years ago....7-8 years ago to be sort of exact. I had to come back to tell my happy ending. My ex and I were in a typical horribly contested custody battle. He was living in another family's home and I had signed a separation agreement giving him physical custody...did this with no lawyer...he had one though. He began to seriously restrict my "visitation" and I hunkered down for the fight of my life. Learned all I could about custody/visitation in my state. I knew I had a tough one as I had signed a paper giving him custody. But eventually, through the biggest emotional battle of my whole life, I "won". The visitation for Dad was fair/equitable and life got better. After all the drama, he got remarried and moved away. If I had known then, what I know now....I would have just relaxed...chilled out and realized that all would be fine. And to add to the happy ending...my daughter and I are moving to be closer to her Dad. Sounds wild I know...but his new wife and I are very good friends and I know my daughter needs us both. The relationship between her father and I is awesome.

So I would tell you all, struggling in what seems the worst storm you have ever faced, there is light at the end of your scarey ugly tunnel. Be fair, don't involve the children in your ugliness, and don't do anything you will regret later.....

Take care all...and to Gr8Dad....thank you for all the kicks in my a$$...they motivated me and I have to say thank you now....

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* Wanted to come back here.... done4now 02/13/12 08:01 PM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... Cassie23   02/14/12 05:21 AM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... done4now   02/14/12 07:31 AM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... NikkiL   02/14/12 10:22 AM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... Anything4Love   02/14/12 12:42 PM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... MrsB   02/14/12 12:54 PM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... Anything4Love   02/14/12 01:17 PM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... done4now   02/14/12 01:47 PM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... Anything4Love   02/14/12 02:11 PM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... javajunkiee   02/14/12 10:03 PM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... gr8Dad   02/15/12 09:39 AM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... Eve   03/15/12 12:23 AM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... done4now   02/14/12 03:40 PM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... MrsB   02/14/12 08:02 AM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... M5M5   02/14/12 01:11 AM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... MrsB   02/13/12 09:08 PM

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