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Anything4Love
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Re: Wanted to come back here....
      02/14/12 02:11 PM

Thanks for the responses. He is being restrictive only because I live with someone else and he is angry that I left him. My other 2 children are thrilled with their new home and have reservations about visiting him because of his living environment. I agree about taking the high road - that's why I let him see his stepchildren even though he is denying visitation of my own children. I have been documenting everything in case he does get a lawyer and drag me in to court - the only hope I have is what I have been able to document about his living conditions. I feel the court ought to be a lot more concerned about those issues than the fact I am with someone else, but from what I've read Virginia courts like to impose moral judgement and I'm afraid I will come out even worse off, even though I feel his home is unfit due to a serious hoarding problem, unsanitary conditions, and a bug problem he refuses to rectify. He also got a 5 day or quit eviction notice after I left - he paid and stopped the eviction but I still feel it reflects very poorly on him that he got it in the first place. He also has what I feel is a drinking problem. Thanks again for the encouragement - I hope there is a chance I will ultimately get the joint custody and diplomatic relationship with him I am seeking.

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* Wanted to come back here.... done4now 02/13/12 08:01 PM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... Cassie23   02/14/12 05:21 AM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... done4now   02/14/12 07:31 AM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... NikkiL   02/14/12 10:22 AM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... Anything4Love   02/14/12 12:42 PM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... MrsB   02/14/12 12:54 PM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... Anything4Love   02/14/12 01:17 PM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... done4now   02/14/12 01:47 PM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... Anything4Love   02/14/12 02:11 PM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... javajunkiee   02/14/12 10:03 PM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... gr8Dad   02/15/12 09:39 AM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... Eve   03/15/12 12:23 AM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... done4now   02/14/12 03:40 PM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... MrsB   02/14/12 08:02 AM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... M5M5   02/14/12 01:11 AM
. * * Re: Wanted to come back here.... MrsB   02/13/12 09:08 PM

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