
Anything4Love
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Reged: 10/09/11
Posts: 60
Loc: Virginia
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Re: Wanted to come back here....
02/14/12 02:11 PM
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Thanks for the responses. He is being restrictive only because I live with someone else and he is angry that I left him. My other 2 children are thrilled with their new home and have reservations about visiting him because of his living environment. I agree about taking the high road - that's why I let him see his stepchildren even though he is denying visitation of my own children. I have been documenting everything in case he does get a lawyer and drag me in to court - the only hope I have is what I have been able to document about his living conditions. I feel the court ought to be a lot more concerned about those issues than the fact I am with someone else, but from what I've read Virginia courts like to impose moral judgement and I'm afraid I will come out even worse off, even though I feel his home is unfit due to a serious hoarding problem, unsanitary conditions, and a bug problem he refuses to rectify. He also got a 5 day or quit eviction notice after I left - he paid and stopped the eviction but I still feel it reflects very poorly on him that he got it in the first place. He also has what I feel is a drinking problem. Thanks again for the encouragement - I hope there is a chance I will ultimately get the joint custody and diplomatic relationship with him I am seeking.
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