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How to handle this...
      02/14/12 11:47 PM

Ok, here's the situation...

My daughter told me one of the guys I work wrestling shows with has been leaving her messages on her Facebook page and that it was creeping her out. On the surface they appeared harmless, but when you think about it... Anyway, she was with me this past weekend and he started doing it again. She said it was freaking her out, so I took the computer and sent her out of the room. I remained online under her name to see what he was up to (she knew I was doing this). Just as I thought he would, he "crossed the line".

Now, here's the problem.

Upon further investigation, I found out my ex had "friended" this guy a few weeks ago. She has been talking to him in a "get to know and go out" kind of way. She found out about the messages and went off on him, but then went right back to the let's-go-out stuff.

My ex doesn't have custody but our daughter spends at least one night a week with her, sometimes more. Ex's mom has custody but allows ex to take our daughter whenever she wants.

This concerns me because the things the guy said (that he thought was to my daughter) and apparently ex doesn't care about it. Ex's mom knows about the situation as well because I gave her all the details. She was quite upset about it but apparently isn't concerned about letting my daughter go with the ex even though there's a chance this guy could be around.

I'm still waiting for a response from the court whether or not I'll get a new hearing, so in the meantime should I file for emergency custody? The guy has been turned in to the police but who knows if or when they'll do anything to him, and as desperate as he is (he has harassed numerous other people as well) it's hard to tell what he might do to a 12-year-old kid if the opportunity presented itself.



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* How to handle this... KDogg 02/14/12 11:47 PM
. * * Re: How to handle this... Debi   02/15/12 07:14 AM
. * * Re: How to handle this... KDogg   02/16/12 12:28 AM
. * * Re: How to handle this... finz   02/19/12 03:22 AM
. * * Re: How to handle this... Goodmom   02/15/12 05:46 AM

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