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Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage
      02/20/12 04:33 PM

My husband and I have been married 1 year. We have an 8 and a half month old daughter and he has an 8 year old from a previous relationship where he has 50/50 custody. I was a stay at home mother while he worked out of town for weeks and home for 2-4 days because his position got cut and was forced to travel or have to quit.

His net income is $27,000/yr and mine is zero. He is 38 and I am 28 years old. I am living with my aunt, and am unable to work because I have no money for daycare or a sitter. My husband is trying to tell me that just because I have lots of family here, that I should be able to get a job at least part time. I disagree though as it is HIS responsibility not my family to support me whether it be with money or daycare.

I have filed for disolution of marriage, and am asking for $650 in child support and $650 every two weeks in alimony.
We have no marital assets.

I am one semester away from a BS in Elementary Education, and I believe he should pay for my books and final exam, along with daycare for me to finish school.

Because of his affair in july, he forced me out of the house in December because the lease was up. He is now renting a house in the same neighborhood and I am forced to live at my aunt's house.

I have also filed for temporary custody/relief, and while he keeps trying to get me to have his daughter overnight for 3 to 4 nights at a time on the 2 weeks he is off, I have told him that because he has a girlfriend, and because he is essentially a stranger to his daughter because of his work schedule, I am only allowing him to see her in a public place such as a park. He has begged me and begged me to then at least let my daughter come over for 4 hours because his son is missing her, but I still think and have told him a public place is better for her right now until a judge makes a final judgement.

What are my chances of receiving what I am asking for? He tells me it is not going to be a good thing when it goes to court because he says I am preventing him from being with his daughter. I am only looking out for her best interests.

BTW.. I filed both sets of papers with no attorney and I know he cannot afford one either, so I am expecting him to answer his petition by himself.

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* Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Lifeline 02/20/12 04:33 PM
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