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Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage
      02/20/12 05:53 PM

First, his girlfriend is irrelevant to any of the issues. I understand that it upsets you, but it is not a legal issue. If adultery was involved, the court may consider it only to the extent it affects the best interests of the child.

Second, alimony/spousal support is extremely unlikely based on a one year marriage and at your age. If any is awarded, it would be extremely short term. It is true that it is likely you will be required to find employment or some other means of support.

The court may consider the following things in Florida for Spousal Support:
- Adultery of either spouse during the marriage, and the circumstances surrounding it
- The standard of living established during the marriage
- The duration of the marriage
- The age and health of both spouses
- The financial resources of each party
- The time necessary for either party to acquire sufficient education or training to enable that party to find suitable employment
- All sources of income available to each party

Third, his parenting time may depend on many things including his past history of care with the child. If he has cared for the child in the past, it would be difficult to argue that now, because you are getting a divorce, he should have only supervised access. Certainly, if there were to be supervised parenting time, that would not last long and it would move to a more regular parenting schedule to include overnights. Keep in mind that if you deny the other parent access unreasonably, that can be used against you in court. Also keep in mind, that he is the parent of the child= and that child was born during the marriage. As a result, in the absence of a court order, there is nothing that precludes him from having the child in his care at any time.

In short, I think your expectations are over-reaching and unlikely to be realized.

Edited by Maury (02/20/12 05:57 PM)

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