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Re: stbx wife wants 3rd party communication
      02/21/12 09:59 AM

No one has raised this question -- who is the third party and if his stbx sent him the email address, what is the connection to the ex? I'm curious about that. This person is being referred to as someone that doesn't know either of them -- that can't be exactly true because his ex had the email address.

I think I'd react in a similar emotional manner, given the circumstances of the marriage ending and specifically when someone chooses to be a coward and have an affair instead of facing the task of ending it himself. We don't know what this OW was told about the status of this marriage and she found herself badly hurt in the process **as per the OP** IF she was told that the OP was separated, divorced, single, etc, then she also was a victim of a coward. Still hurts. IF she went into it knowing that this person was married, I have no sympathy. Given his marital situation and what he says about the woman that he had an affair with? I somehow doubt that she was clearly advised of his situation.

That said -- in his position, I'd want to know exactly who this third party, what connection they have to his ex. Me? If I was him? I'd pick up read/notify and send his responses to both parties, his ex and the third party. Therefore, there is no miscommunication, his emails are crystal clear in the content and they are unable to be miscontrued.

However. To the OP? A lot of humility and perhaps an apology to your ex for being a complete coward MIGHT start her healing process. Man up and take responsibility to HER for what you did, as opposed to a board full of faceless, nameless strangers.

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