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Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage
      02/21/12 12:55 PM

My husband raised his son from birth until he was 3 by himself because the mother did not want to be a mother. She then came back in the picture and was still awarded 50/50. During the years, I pushed him to try and get more custody of his son and he now says he will make sure to prove to the judge how I pushed him to get more custody of his son but will not allow his daughter to go to his house. No way they will be related.

Also, my car is not working right, the battery light is on. I have told him that he is responsible for paying for getting it fixed but he is still refusing by simply telling me to get a job. How can he leave me stranded with no vehicle with an 8 month old?

He says I am on "vacation" because when I left in December I went to my mothers house for a week.. then went to my fathers for a few days for xmas. I then went and stayed with a friend for 3 weeks 6 hours away. I went back home for about 2 weeks and am back up here for now 3 weeks. What business is it of his what I am doing? I cannot get a job because of no money for sitters and he is telling me i am on vacation touring Florida. That is kind of nervy on his part.

Another thing he is pissed about is when we seperated, he agreed for me to move 6 hours away in Florida so I could get back on my feet, get a job, save money, and move back up in July to finish my last semester of school. He wanted my daughter the two weeks he was off but I said no.. I told him we could do 1 week for a bit and then 2 when she was comfortable being away from her mother. Since he is a stranger to her in my eyes, I told him none of that will happen because A. He is recanting on helping me with money and B. I am recanting on what we agreed because he recanted on our marriage. He has threatened me to get the cops or someone involved so he could be with her at his house, but I am not budging until a final judgement or temporary orders are passed, especially if he has a girlfriend at the house.

Yes, he is a good father, but he has not been around in his daughter's life to warrant what he wants. Yes, I agreed to him traveling to make money but I did not agree to being divorced 6 months later. He calls me selfish and controlling and cannot be with me.. but he made a promise when we married. He cannot get off that easy.

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* Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Lifeline 02/20/12 04:33 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Gecko   03/11/12 08:40 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage googledad   02/21/12 08:52 AM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage BeachBabeRN   02/21/12 10:11 AM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage hanzblinx   02/21/12 10:32 AM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage fatheroffour   02/26/12 03:01 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Debi   02/21/12 08:47 AM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage ssmom79   02/20/12 10:30 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage hanzblinx   02/21/12 10:54 AM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Lifeline   02/21/12 11:19 AM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Maury   02/21/12 12:04 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Lifeline   02/21/12 12:55 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Maury   02/21/12 01:10 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage hanzblinx   02/21/12 02:27 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Lifeline   02/21/12 02:35 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage gr8Dad   02/21/12 03:00 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Lifeline   02/21/12 03:19 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage gr8Dad   02/22/12 06:22 AM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Lifeline   02/21/12 03:48 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Debi   02/22/12 11:21 AM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Lifeline   02/22/12 12:45 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage gr8Dad   02/22/12 05:42 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Lifeline   02/22/12 07:30 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage ssmom79   02/22/12 08:41 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage javajunkiee   02/22/12 09:05 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Lifeline   02/23/12 08:54 AM
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. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Maury   02/23/12 10:50 AM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Lifeline   02/23/12 11:10 AM
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. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Lifeline   02/23/12 11:30 AM
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. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Lifeline   02/24/12 06:05 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Debi   02/24/12 07:28 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Lifeline   02/24/12 07:39 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Debi   02/27/12 03:19 PM
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. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Maury   03/01/12 12:40 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage yregna   03/02/12 10:04 AM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Debi   03/01/12 07:35 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage M5M5   02/27/12 12:40 AM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage A4H   02/27/12 07:10 AM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Goodmom   02/26/12 03:44 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Maury   02/26/12 12:07 AM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage BeachBabeRN   02/26/12 10:46 AM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Lifeline   02/24/12 07:48 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Renny   02/24/12 09:06 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage gr8Dad   02/23/12 11:49 AM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage gr8Dad   02/22/12 07:58 PM
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. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Maury   02/22/12 02:13 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage javajunkiee   02/22/12 01:36 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Maury   02/21/12 04:06 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Lifeline   02/21/12 04:41 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage javajunkiee   02/21/12 08:59 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage ssmom79   02/21/12 08:07 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage hanzblinx   02/21/12 06:35 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Maury   02/21/12 03:32 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage hanzblinx   02/21/12 01:01 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Maury   02/20/12 05:53 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Lifeline   02/20/12 07:17 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage ssmom79   02/20/12 10:34 PM
. * * Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage Maury   02/20/12 10:14 PM

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