When I left December 16th, I only had $200, and by Jan, I recieved one package of baby goods, (diapers, wipes, food, formula) lasted about a month and $100, then another $100 in the beginning of FEB, and just yesterday I had to have a friend drive me an HOUR to his city to pick up $140.( because without a reliable car, im limited to doing things by her schedule) So in 2 months ive only recieved $340 and some things to help get by, I have a cell phone bill that he has been paying for while we were married, I got a large bill and now he refuses to pay it?! How is he suppossed to keep in contact with me about our daughter? I'm not on my Email 24/7 responding to his emails. In the least I need a safe car to drive, and cell phone for emergencies. Like I stated before, I cannot get a job, because i cannot afford daycare.
My husband even had the audacity to offer me to drive his girlfriends car or his car while she is out of town for work, as he will not need both cars around. I do not want a hand-me-down car for 3 weeks, I want my own vehicle fixed. Your telling me a judge will not look at all this info and think he is scum just like I do? He doesnt deserve to see his daughter because he failed to keep his promise to always protect and provide for me.
He worked out of town for 2-3 weeks, and would come home for a few days. His daughter only saw him every few weeks, and now he thinks its best for her to stay with him for 3-4 overnights? She needs her mother, her and I have a bond that dad cannot fill.
After his affair in July, I lived with him and our daughter and his son, til December when the lease was up, then right before chiristmas I had to pack up my life and move into one bedroom I share with my daughter. He stayed in the house til Jan 12 when the house would go back up for rent, and moved into a house right across the street. So im screwed, and have nothing to my name, and he gets a house, stable car, and happy life with his new girlfriend, and Im left with taking care of, raising, and providing for a baby? How am I unrealistic??!!