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javajunkiee
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Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage

02/21/12 08:59 PM

He'll be ordered to pay child support. Ask for daycare costs and that he cover her under his health insurance.

Also, the fact that the two of you agreed to your move isn't going to have much weight. The moving parent usually pays the transportation costs to visit the other parent.

Yes, you will be expected to get a job and contribute to your daughters care and to support yourself. You will be expected to pay your own cell bill. Pay your own car insurance. Pay for your own room, board, food, car repairs.

So he broke his vows. Yes, that sucks, its wrong, and no way he should have done that to you or to his daughter. That does not entitle you to alimony. You are a healthy woman, capable of being self-sufficient and are choosing not to because you're pissed. Rightfully so, but the judge isn't going to care. Go into court with the attitude you're displaying here and the judge is going to be FAR harsher on you than anyone here.

After all, HE is the one who is responsibly employed and can provide for his daughter. HE is the one with a home and who isn't sleeping on a couch or in a relative's guest room because he's killing time before going back to college. HE's the one making the effort to see and care for his child, and you are the one denying him his right to do so. Your making excuses and pointing at your stbx and saying "but, but, he saidddd he would do...." isn't going to fly any more than it would for a 2yr old with their hand in the cookie jar before dinner.

You are soooo way over the top in what you think he should be doing for YOU, you're not *remotely* realistic. You are not entitled to any of the things you are demanding for yourself. You couldn't control him when you were MARRIED to him, do you really think you're going to get control of him *NOW* through his wallet?

Adjust your attitude or you're going to make things worse for yourself. At 28yrs old it's time to stop being naive and dependent like you were when you were 14.

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Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Lifeline	02/20/12 04:33 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Gecko	03/11/12 08:40 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	googledad	02/21/12 08:52 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	BeachBabeRN	02/21/12 10:11 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	hanzblinx	02/21/12 10:32 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	fatheroffour	02/26/12 03:01 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Debi	02/21/12 08:47 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	ssmom79	02/20/12 10:30 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	hanzblinx	02/21/12 10:54 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Lifeline	02/21/12 11:19 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Maury	02/21/12 12:04 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Lifeline	02/21/12 12:55 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Maury	02/21/12 01:10 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	hanzblinx	02/21/12 02:27 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Lifeline	02/21/12 02:35 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	gr8Dad	02/21/12 03:00 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Lifeline	02/21/12 03:19 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	gr8Dad	02/22/12 06:22 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Lifeline	02/21/12 03:48 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Debi	02/22/12 11:21 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Lifeline	02/22/12 12:45 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	gr8Dad	02/22/12 05:42 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Lifeline	02/22/12 07:30 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	ssmom79	02/22/12 08:41 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	javajunkiee	02/22/12 09:05 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Lifeline	02/23/12 08:54 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	gr8Dad	02/23/12 11:48 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Maury	02/23/12 10:50 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Lifeline	02/23/12 11:10 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Maury	02/23/12 12:02 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	ssmom79	02/23/12 11:25 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Lifeline	02/23/12 11:30 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	yregna	02/23/12 02:13 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	hanzblinx	02/24/12 10:56 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	javajunkiee	02/24/12 12:32 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Lifeline	02/24/12 06:05 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Debi	02/24/12 07:28 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Lifeline	02/24/12 07:39 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Debi	02/27/12 03:19 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	finz	03/01/12 02:31 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Maury	03/01/12 12:40 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	yregna	03/02/12 10:04 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Debi	03/01/12 07:35 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	M5M5	02/27/12 12:40 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	A4H	02/27/12 07:10 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Goodmom	02/26/12 03:44 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Maury	02/26/12 12:07 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	BeachBabeRN	02/26/12 10:46 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Lifeline	02/24/12 07:48 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Renny	02/24/12 09:06 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	gr8Dad	02/23/12 11:49 AM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	gr8Dad	02/22/12 07:58 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	ssmom79	02/22/12 03:35 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Maury	02/22/12 02:13 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	javajunkiee	02/22/12 01:36 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Maury	02/21/12 04:06 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Lifeline	02/21/12 04:41 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	javajunkiee	02/21/12 08:59 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	ssmom79	02/21/12 08:07 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	hanzblinx	02/21/12 06:35 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Maury	02/21/12 03:32 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	hanzblinx	02/21/12 01:01 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Maury	02/20/12 05:53 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Lifeline	02/20/12 07:17 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	ssmom79	02/20/12 10:34 PM
Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage	Maury	02/20/12 10:14 PM

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