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Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage
      02/22/12 02:13 PM

Yes, withholding the child could be used in court as a willful interference with his parenting relationship. Keep in mind that with no Court order your spouse has ever right to care for his child and he does not require your permission.

You indicate that he holds money over your head for leverage. That is precisely what you are doing with your child. Which is worse?

With regard to the assets and debts. All are deemed marital and capable of division. However, if he has the greater ability to pay the debts, he may be required to pay more than half. It is also possible that he is awarded a greater share of the assets to compensate for that contribution.

What employment did you have before marriage? Have you looked for such a job again now? Keep in mind that at some point in the near future you will be required to do so. The sooner you get started, the better off you will be financially. That may mean relying on family and/or friends to assist with child care. Have you checked to see if you state has any type of daycare assistance? It appears that you may qualify for the Temporary Cash Assistance program in Florida. You should look into that. You may also qualify for childcare assistance. "If your children are not yet in school, the only way you can realistically find employment is if you have someone to care for your kids. The Florida Department of Health and Human Services offers help for those who need financial assistance for childcare while they work through the Temporary Assistance for Needy Families program (TANF: .dcf.state.fl.us/ess/)."

There is information available at
w w w.singlemomfinancialhelp.com/state-assistance-programs-for-single-mothers/florida/


I am sure that many people reading your posts will have difficulty sympathizing with you. Just look at the responses you have received. You were married for ALL of ONE year and yet come off as if you are entitled to something. You are not. It was ONE year. I would suggest trying to alter that type of perception in court or the response you will get is likely to be sympathy for your spouse for enduring that ONE inexorable year.

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