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Re: I may have to give him the kids :(
      02/22/12 07:12 PM

I would do whatever I had to to have a custody/visitation lined up before they go - a legal temp order

I personally would not give them up because it is a long difficult road to get them back and because of the distance there is not the chance for 50/50 custody and once he has a status quo you will be hard pressed to establish the children now need to be uprooted and sent to you to be the custodial parent. You will become a visitor and it may be permanent.

Do you get TANF - if your husband doesn't pay support because he doesn't want to but is able to the state will give you money and go after him to pay it back - do not know if you want to go that route but it would bring in some income to raise the children - not a lot of monies but something.

I am curious as to why your caseworker wants you to go back to school if you already have 2 degrees - is it refresher? What are the degrees in?

I wouldn't give them up but I have read, heard, etc.... too many horror stories about people doing this and ending up the NCP - if you all lived closer then maybe because it could go to 50/50. I am not saying this because you are a woman it is what I would say to whoever had the children and had a long distance parenting issue and was thinking of sending the children to the other parent "for a little while"

Good Luck

you will probably have to pay support to your husband to help with the children's expenses and if they use state assistance you will have to pay it back in accordance with whatever income you come up with.

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* I may have to give him the kids :( AllisonG38 02/22/12 01:29 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( Avaya   02/23/12 08:02 AM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( Tweeby   02/23/12 08:29 AM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( AllisonG38   02/23/12 08:17 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( AllisonG38   02/24/12 08:42 AM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( finz   03/01/12 04:52 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( ssmom79   02/24/12 02:16 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( AllisonG38   02/24/12 03:07 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( Buckeye   02/27/12 06:26 AM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( Renny   02/23/12 10:10 AM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( ssmom79   02/23/12 08:16 AM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( Renny   02/22/12 03:40 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( AllisonG38   02/22/12 03:48 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( ssmom79   02/22/12 04:36 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( AllisonG38   02/22/12 04:57 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( ssmom79   02/22/12 05:38 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( annieo   02/22/12 07:12 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( annieo   02/22/12 07:15 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( annieo   02/22/12 10:32 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( AllisonG38   02/22/12 08:47 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( finz   03/01/12 04:53 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( ssmom79   03/01/12 05:34 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( Runswithscissors   03/05/12 12:30 PM
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. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( AllisonG38   02/22/12 06:59 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( ssmom79   02/22/12 03:02 PM

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