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Re: I may have to give him the kids :(
      02/23/12 08:02 AM

[quote]...he's refused to pay child support, [/quote]

If you're going to keep the kids you need to file for support and get an order to encourage him to pay. Do whatever needs to be done to get him served.

[quote]... athough i have 2 degrees, the fact that I have been a stay at home mother for the last 7 yrs is not helping. I am currently working with a case manager who things my best bet is to go back to school.[/quote]

For what? You have two degrees. GET A JOB - doing ANYTHING. In 16 months there can't have been NOTHING at all available. Right now, you cannot afford to be choosy.

[quote]I've discussed this with my husband and explained to him that I didn't want to do this unless it has been made legal, because once they leave the state I lose all rights.[/quote]

With nothing official for either of you, he could come pick them up today and take them to his home and there is nothing you could do about it. Absent a C/O, both parents have equal rights.

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* I may have to give him the kids :( AllisonG38 02/22/12 01:29 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( Avaya   02/23/12 08:02 AM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( Tweeby   02/23/12 08:29 AM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( AllisonG38   02/23/12 08:17 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( AllisonG38   02/24/12 08:42 AM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( finz   03/01/12 04:52 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( ssmom79   02/24/12 02:16 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( AllisonG38   02/24/12 03:07 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( Buckeye   02/27/12 06:26 AM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( Renny   02/23/12 10:10 AM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( ssmom79   02/23/12 08:16 AM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( Renny   02/22/12 03:40 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( AllisonG38   02/22/12 03:48 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( ssmom79   02/22/12 04:36 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( AllisonG38   02/22/12 04:57 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( ssmom79   02/22/12 05:38 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( annieo   02/22/12 07:12 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( annieo   02/22/12 07:15 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( annieo   02/22/12 10:32 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( AllisonG38   02/22/12 08:47 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( finz   03/01/12 04:53 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( ssmom79   03/01/12 05:34 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( Runswithscissors   03/05/12 12:30 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( Eve   03/13/12 09:50 AM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( AllisonG38   02/22/12 06:59 PM
. * * Re: I may have to give him the kids :( ssmom79   02/22/12 03:02 PM

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