BeachBabeRN
Carpal \'Tunnel
Reged: 01/16/06
Posts: 3032
Loc: VA for 21 years, NC forever!
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Re: Spousal Support- Florida - 1 Year of Marriage
02/26/12 10:46 AM
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I realize I've only posted once to this thread and have read the postings from others I have a great deal of respect for.
Lifeline? You NEED to pull your head out of your butt and start acting in a productive manner. While YOU feel that it is the responsibility of your ex to provide for day care for your child, you also need to realize that it is YOUR repsonsibility also.
You are getting DIVORCED. Your ex's only responsibility to his daughter are to be the best parent that he can be **which I think he's trying to do** and to financially support your CHILD. NOT you. He's DONE with you. A marriage of one year's duration????? I repeat, he's DONE with you.
You're using your child as a weapon. She is young enough to adapt easily to whatever parenting agreement is set down. He will GET to know his daughter, he WILL get overnight visitation, he WILL get extended time with her and when school starts for her, it'll be adjusted accordingly to permit him the long weekends, summer vacation weeks, recesses from school. THAT'S the bottom line here.
Forgive me for saying this as I don't usually engage in name calling but you are a whiny BRAT. You will NOT be able to dictate his parenting time. You WILL have to get a job. You WILL have to figure out how to finish school, take your licensing exam and engage in menaingful employment. You will have to make your car payment, your insuance payment, your cell phone bill **why do you even have a cell phone if you're not working?** and every other bill that comes along with living out in the world.
Instead of moaning and whining about what you want HIM to do, why not ask YOURSELF what you're going to do? You're running around Florida, changing residences, staying with different people until they get tired of you crashing on their couches -- and YOU can provide greater stability???? Really?
Offering up his email address is pretty positive proof that you're somewhat less than intelligent -- do you realize that anyone on this thread could copy and paste EVERY WORD you wrote and send it to him? Talk about evidence -- this board and others are currently being USED in a custody dispute IRL. It's being taken VERY seriously by a court of law.
The only things that your postings clearly demonstrate is that you're unwilling to coparent, you're unwilling to do anything for the best interests of your child, you EXPECT and are DEMANDING that someone else pay your way through life on the basis of you HAVING that child. They demonstrate that you cannot provide any type of stable residence for your child, they demonstrate that you WON'T attempt to have family watch your child so you can finish school, you want it ALL on the basis of having only a.....less than two year relationship **based on the length of your marriage and the age of your daughter**
Your ex WILL win this -- and the advice that you're calling **not so smart** is DEAD ON.
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