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Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this..
      02/26/12 04:35 PM

I don't use my facebook so I won't look up this guys facebook. Was that the ONLY thing that was stated? From what Gecko is mentioning there seems to be a bit more than that one 'vent'.

---> I found him. Looks like he cleaned stuff up, but I did find this post (with short videos):

PART 1 (42 secs). Shortly after 10am - on Saturday Morning July 23, 2011. Supervised visitation with XXXXXXXX - XXXXX's Grandfather. 2 hours, 10am-12pm. I've never missed a visit one time for 6 months. On several occasions, he took it upon himself to take my son away and throw a fit if I showed up with coffee in my hand. This time, I got it on video. I'd had the coffee since 8am, it was room temperature. Later, he would claim that he 'no longer wanted to be the supervisor.' This was was one of the last times I saw my son until late November - which is when I posted my reuniting photo and vented frustrations.

PART 2 (30 secs). Shortly after 10am - on Saturday Morning July 23, 2011. Supervised visitation with Greg VanDulman - Jonathan's Grandfather. 2 hours, 10am-12pm. I've never missed a visit one time for 6 months. On several occasions, he took it upon himself to take my son away from me and throw a fit if I showed up with coffee in my hand. This time, I got it on video. Later, he would claim that he 'no longer wanted to be the supervisor.' This was was one of the last times I saw my son until late November - which is when I posted my reuniting photo and vented frustrations.

Part 3 (1min 38secs). Shortly after 10am - on Saturday Morning July 23, 2011. Supervised visitation with Greg Van Dulman - Jonathan's Grandfather. The visit is supposed to be for 2 hours, 10am-12pm. I NEVER missed a visit one time for 6 months. On several occasions, he would simply not show up.. A few times, he took it upon himself to take my son away and throw a fit if I showed up with coffee in my hand. This time, I got it on video. Later, he would claim that he 'no longer wanted to be the supervisor.' This was was one of the last times I saw my son until late November - which is when I posted my reuniting photo and vented frustrations.

---> He got NOTHING on video except his FIL walking back to his car and HIM being a total ass and the FIL NOT being 'confrontational' as claimed. When his FIL said in the third video that he needed to arrive on time, Byron whines about how he had to drive 30 minutes to get there...the FIL responded that it takes him an hour, but he does it twice a week.

---> It should be noted he says he never missed a single 'visit', YET...in his apology, he says he only saw his son ONCE during 4 or those 6 months and that it was HIS choice...NOT anyone preventing him.

Perhaps because I'm viewing this from a different POV that I'm not seeing anything wrong with it and actually kinda of pleased that the guy did an apology.

---> I don't see it is a violation of the First Amendment to require someone to apologize for their words or deeds...it's called 'accountability' and 'responsibility'.

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* Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. Reilly 02/25/12 06:28 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. gr8Dad   02/27/12 08:07 AM
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. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. LexieBelle   02/27/12 08:57 AM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. M5M5   02/27/12 02:46 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. LexieBelle   02/27/12 03:16 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. M5M5   02/27/12 06:43 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. LexieBelle   02/27/12 07:51 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. M5M5   02/27/12 10:14 PM
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. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. SockPuppet1   02/27/12 09:30 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. gr8Dad   02/27/12 09:00 AM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. LexieBelle   02/27/12 09:19 AM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. gr8Dad   02/27/12 09:22 AM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. Gecko   02/27/12 04:09 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. gr8Dad   02/27/12 10:52 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. Gecko   02/28/12 01:32 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. gr8Dad   02/28/12 03:22 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. Gecko   02/28/12 04:21 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. gr8Dad   02/29/12 04:40 AM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. Gecko   02/29/12 03:27 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. gr8Dad   02/29/12 05:38 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. Runswithscissors   02/27/12 11:12 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. LexieBelle   02/27/12 09:39 AM
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. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. M5M5   02/26/12 10:16 PM
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. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. Gecko   02/26/12 04:35 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. spinnerdegrassi   02/26/12 04:38 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. Redlegg   02/26/12 04:28 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. Gecko   02/26/12 04:59 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. Redlegg   02/26/12 05:13 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. Gecko   02/26/12 08:22 PM
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. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. Reilly   02/26/12 05:31 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. Gecko   02/26/12 08:10 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. Redlegg   02/26/12 06:50 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. Reilly   02/26/12 04:17 PM
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. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. Gecko   02/25/12 08:21 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. Reilly   02/25/12 09:20 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. Gecko   02/26/12 02:55 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. Reilly   02/26/12 03:38 PM
. * * Re: Gr8...immediately thought of you when I saw this.. Gecko   02/26/12 03:52 PM
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