mydejavooo
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EX constantly violates custody papers...what to do
03/04/12 09:18 PM
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Hello everyone! This is my first post, and I am hoping to get some help with an issue that I have been having for a while now. I have been divorced for almost 6 years, and I am a father that has primary custody of my children. My ex gets the kids every other weekend. I have moved on with my life and remarried, but unfortunately my ex has bounced from man to man to man, exposing my children to at least 12 different men, if not more. I dated one woman, and subsequently married her. My question is this: It clearly states in out divorce papers that she is to have no overnight dating, but my ex views that as my attempt to control her life. I really could care less about what she does when the kids are not with her, but when they are there, I really cringe at the thought of her exposing my children to man after man, forming bonds and attachments, only to have them broken when she tires of them and moves on to another guy. Presently she has moved in with another guy and has been with him for about 7 months now. She tells me that she has been keeping the kids at her mother's house on the weekends that she has them, but I found out tonight that she has been lying to me about that, and that they have been staying with her at her boyfriend's house. She states very clearly (because I asked her flat out) that she has NO intentions of ever marrying this guy...she's just living with him. So, isn't she in contempt of the papers???? I am not trying to control her life by any means, by it tears me up when the kids have memories of all of these men, and they get attached to them...and then she moves on. If I don't let her have the kids on the weekend because I KNOW she will take them to her BF's, then I am in contempt as well. What should I do here?? Oh, and I live in Idaho. Please, can anyone help here??
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