javajunkiee
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Re: EX constantly violates custody papers...what to do
03/05/12 03:09 PM
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Have you filed contempt on her for this before? How did that turn out? If you've not taken her to court for it before, I agree with Runs, why NOW? What has changed that's prompting you to step up now?
Honestly, while I get your concern, but the fact is that she gets them 4 days or more a month and you and your wife have them the other 25+. You're already the primary parent and have a greater opportunity to model the behavior you want your kids to learn than she does. The damage to the kids with "memories", if there is any damage, is already done. Counteract it by living a more stable life yourself. After 6 yrs of this behavior, and a current steady relationship, I doubt you get anything more out of contempt than a large bill from your attorney. Worse case, after 6 yrs, she tries to mod the order to drop the clause, and its approved.
Bottomline? I think you've always thought she was a slut for jumping from man to man, and now you're angry because you just found out she's been lying to you. You want to show her that you're not as gullible and weak as she thinks.
Instead of making it a costly lesson about which one of you is right, make it about the kids, and giving them the stable life their mother apparently can't.
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