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ssmom79
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Re: Some of you are awesome, thank you...

03/13/12 08:26 AM

Something to think about. This is a very small skewed view of life in the real world. In the real world, there are actually mother's who *gasp* aren't so good at playing that mother role. They'd prefer to be there for the good stuff only, what one may refer to as a Disneyland parent. In this same world there are steppies who can and do take on a more structured or more 'parental' (for lack of a better word) role in the lives of the children. It doesn't make them BETTER, they just take on a different role. And guess what, there are BM's who prefer it. I deal with one. She LOVES her kids, and I'd never call her a bad mom, she's not a bad mom at all. She has different priorities, and that effects her style of parenting.

I'm so over the whole steppies come in and take over bit....I swear BM was THANKFUL when hubby started dating me and she will GUSH how thankful she is to have me as a part of her family. HER family. Maybe some people would be more irritated to deal with a steppie, but for ONCE consider that a BM may enjoy dealing with someone they weren't married to.

Food for thought. Not EVERY situation is some badass steppie shoving mom out of the way, taking over for dad, being the cause for distaste from a BM, etc. etc. etc. THIS is what annoys ME.

Please try to see the other side of things....BAER

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Re: Some of you are awesome, thank you...	ssmom79	03/13/12 08:26 AM
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Re: Some of you are awesome, thank you...	LexieBelle	03/13/12 07:55 AM
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Re: Some of you are awesome, thank you...	ssmom79	03/16/12 07:53 AM
Re: Some of you are awesome, thank you...	LexieBelle	03/16/12 08:25 AM
Re: Some of you are awesome, thank you...	M5M5	03/16/12 06:15 PM
Re: Some of you are awesome, thank you...	ssmom79	03/16/12 09:00 AM
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Re: Some of you are awesome, thank you...	ssmom79	03/16/12 09:10 AM
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Re: Some of you are awesome, thank you...	SweetLight	03/16/12 11:26 AM
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Re: Some of you are awesome, thank you...	LeAnne	03/14/12 09:53 AM
Re: Some of you are awesome, thank you...	Loretta	03/14/12 09:51 AM
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