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Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance
      03/18/12 10:52 AM

"Our dd has never been away from either of us for more than ten days at a time. So yes, three weeks is unreasonable."

Most people get 4-6 weeks of summer vacation. You now have 50/50 custody, so three weeks is most definitely NOT unreasonable.

"I am trying to be proactive and work with him. I have reached out to him on our court-ordered communication system and asked if he had any thoughts on how to make this work for both of us."

Okay, now think about this, if you have week on, week off, it is either going to be ONE week, or three weeks, that is the ONLY way it CAN work out.

"One of the funnier problems is that our dd's summer vacation simply does not last long enough for both parents to take two three-week periods of time."

So request the week before his week, or the week AFTER his vacation. That would give you each two weeks of vacation. What you appear to want is for him to only take weeks that he ALREADY gets, which is silly.

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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...

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* Summer Vacation - need guidance BlueGoldgirl 03/17/12 06:01 PM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance Avaya   03/20/12 11:50 AM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance Tweeby   03/20/12 06:48 AM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance ssmom79   03/18/12 08:17 PM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance Goodmom   03/18/12 06:27 PM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance gr8Dad   03/18/12 04:19 PM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance Goodmom   03/18/12 06:30 PM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance gr8Dad   03/18/12 07:12 PM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance elliesmom   03/18/12 11:24 AM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance gr8Dad   03/17/12 09:52 PM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance BlueGoldgirl   03/18/12 09:23 AM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance gr8Dad   03/18/12 10:52 AM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance Debi   03/18/12 02:46 PM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance gr8Dad   03/18/12 03:35 PM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance Debi   03/18/12 08:05 PM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance Avaya   03/20/12 11:54 AM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance BlueGoldgirl   03/22/12 03:07 PM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance gr8Dad   03/22/12 06:43 PM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance BlueGoldgirl   06/12/12 09:53 AM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance ssmom79   06/12/12 11:09 AM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance BlueGoldgirl   06/12/12 02:05 PM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance gr8Dad   03/18/12 08:39 PM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance Debi   03/19/12 09:45 PM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance gr8Dad   03/19/12 10:43 PM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance Maury   03/18/12 03:02 PM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance Debi   03/17/12 08:50 PM
. * * Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance Goodmom   03/17/12 06:42 PM

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