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gr8Dad
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Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance

03/18/12 08:39 PM

"You're assuming he was the NCP before 50/50 was implemented."

No, I am not, I ASKED what his parenting time was before the 50/50. When responding to goodmom, I said "IF" he had that, one could understand the mindset.

"If you have 50/50 placement it's normal to assume you take your vacation when you have the child."

That would depend on the TYPE of 50/50 you have. If you have a 5/2 type, that would mean you couldn't go away for more than 5 days EVER.

"Yes 3 weeks IS a long time. I would not want to be away from my kids for 3 weeks, their dad would not want to be away from them for 3 weeks and they would not want to be away from either of us for 3 weeks. they would however be fine not seeing each other for 3 weeks."

No, it is NOT. MANY MANY of us have to give the ex SIX WEEKS of the summer. So HALF of what MANY MANY people have to give up is NOT that long.

"There is absolutely nothing wrong with requesting a bit of time with the child during the week they are not on vacation."

There is nothing wrong with requesting that you ex smear themselves with Jello and run through the street naked. You can ask for whatever you want.

"It doesn't sound as if this child has ever done that so it is HUGE deal to her."

So at what age IS it okay for a child to LEARN to be away from Mommy or Daddy for three weeks? Tens of THOUSANDS of kids go away to CAMP for longer than that in the summer.

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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Summer Vacation - need guidance	BlueGoldgirl	03/17/12 06:01 PM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	Avaya	03/20/12 11:50 AM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	Tweeby	03/20/12 06:48 AM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	ssmom79	03/18/12 08:17 PM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	Goodmom	03/18/12 06:27 PM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	gr8Dad	03/18/12 04:19 PM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	Goodmom	03/18/12 06:30 PM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	gr8Dad	03/18/12 07:12 PM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	elliesmom	03/18/12 11:24 AM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	gr8Dad	03/17/12 09:52 PM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	BlueGoldgirl	03/18/12 09:23 AM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	gr8Dad	03/18/12 10:52 AM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	Debi	03/18/12 02:46 PM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	gr8Dad	03/18/12 03:35 PM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	Debi	03/18/12 08:05 PM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	Avaya	03/20/12 11:54 AM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	BlueGoldgirl	03/22/12 03:07 PM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	gr8Dad	03/22/12 06:43 PM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	BlueGoldgirl	06/12/12 09:53 AM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	ssmom79	06/12/12 11:09 AM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	BlueGoldgirl	06/12/12 02:05 PM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	gr8Dad	03/18/12 08:39 PM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	Debi	03/19/12 09:45 PM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	gr8Dad	03/19/12 10:43 PM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	Maury	03/18/12 03:02 PM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	Debi	03/17/12 08:50 PM
Re: Summer Vacation - need guidance	Goodmom	03/17/12 06:42 PM

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