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Char9
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Re: WWYD?

03/19/12 09:10 AM

Debi, I didn't realize it at the time, but you are so right! I am being passive aggressive about things. Too much so. I never gave it thought until you came out and said that. Mum was the same way, she'd say one thing, about not doing something, when in reality she wanted to go/do it. One event in particular stands out; our department at my old job was going to Six Flags. She didn't like the people I worked for/with (took time away from her LOL), and didn't want to go. When I said that one lady was taking her mother she didn't say anything; until the morning I was leaving to go. We got into a HUGE fight, her whining about such and such's mother is going, you couldn't invite me? I told her she was a bytch, slamming the door as I walked out. I was so angry, crying all the way there, and pissed b/c I ended up getting stuck in traffic. I was so upset, I ended up not going to the event after all, but went for a drive and shopping. I allowed her to ruin what could have been a great day. This was only once, I can't tell you how many times she would do that to me over the years. And when you made that statement, I realized I was doing the exact same thing. Thank you for pointing that out, I truly appreciate it. I will work on it much harder going forward; say what I feel instead of worrying about others or waiting for someone to "ask/say what they wanted".

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
WWYD?	Char9	03/16/12 01:45 PM
Re: WWYD?	Loretta	03/17/12 01:34 PM
Re: WWYD?	LexieBelle	03/17/12 02:09 PM
Re: WWYD?	Loretta	03/17/12 02:33 PM
Re: WWYD?	Char9	03/19/12 09:03 AM
Re: WWYD?	javajunkiee	03/18/12 04:55 PM
Re: WWYD?	Char9	03/19/12 09:05 AM
Re: WWYD?	M5M5	03/19/12 01:06 PM
Re: WWYD?	Char9	03/19/12 04:01 PM
Re: WWYD?	annieo	03/17/12 08:38 PM
Re: WWYD?	Debi	03/17/12 08:38 PM
Re: WWYD?	finz	03/17/12 03:12 AM
Re: WWYD?	annieo	03/17/12 12:21 PM
Re: WWYD?	M5M5	03/16/12 06:53 PM
Re: WWYD?	Reilly	03/16/12 07:40 PM
Re: WWYD?	elliesmom	03/16/12 10:49 PM
Re: WWYD?	NikkiL	03/16/12 02:03 PM
Re: WWYD?	LexieBelle	03/16/12 02:16 PM
Re: WWYD?	Debi	03/16/12 02:53 PM
Re: WWYD?	Char9	03/19/12 09:10 AM
Re: WWYD?	Buckeye	03/19/12 11:37 AM
Re: WWYD?	Char9	03/19/12 04:02 PM
Re: WWYD?	finz	03/20/12 12:15 AM
Re: WWYD?	Char9	03/20/12 10:08 AM
Re: WWYD?	finz	03/22/12 12:22 AM
Re: WWYD?	Tweeby	03/20/12 10:37 AM
Re: WWYD?	Char9	03/20/12 01:25 PM
Re: WWYD?	ssmom79	03/19/12 12:22 PM
Re: WWYD?	Debbie_L	03/19/12 11:45 AM

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