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Nicole
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Communication is going to be hard I think :(

03/20/12 05:16 AM

DH and I made a mistake last week in not realizing that skids spring break with their mom started on Friday of our week not Sunday. We thought we had all week to spend with them before we move and it finally dawned on us Wednesday that they were going to BM's house on Friday.

So, yes, I txt BM and asked her if we could have some extra time. I know I know, her time, she doesn't have too. Which is why I told her that I knew she didn't have too but that we would greatly appreciate it and that it didn't have to be a whole day, we could pick them up early afternoon and return them that evening. I asked her for Sunday since he had family coming to our house that day and DH was also off that day. BM replied "I will get back to you on that"

Next day, hadn't heard anything from her, so I sent her a quick txt just asking if she had thought about it. She said she had talked to her husband about it. I thanked her for even thinking about it since she didn't have too and that we would love to see them before we leave. (Baseball practice was schedule for today so we knew we were going to see them but we just wanted some time to take them out to dinner and see some of his family) BM txt back "I don't want you to think I am not going to let you see them I just don't know what time yet" I was a little taken back because I really didn't think she would let us see them but it looked like she was going too. I txt her back thank you that we were so bummed when we realized we didn't have the weekend with them. She said she understood and that she would let me know Friday for sure what time. Ok.

Friday came, at 2pm we hadn't heard from her so I txt her and asked if she had figured out a time. Never heard back from her. DH txt her that night and asked if she had figured out what time. He never heard back from her.

Saturday, nothing.

Sunday, I txt her asking if we were going to get to see them. A very short txt just saying we would love to see them for a little bit, his family was at our house saying goodbye and would appreciate them being able to come. Nothing.

Monday, BM txt me in the morning saying she should have got back to me sooner but she was at the hospital all weekend and didn't have her phone on her. Once we talked about the hospital thing I asked if DH could see them today since he was off. BM asked if I had skids baseball pants. I txt back yes and that I was going to bring them to practice but with the weather it is highly unlikely they are going to have practice so if DH could see them tomorrow I would just send them with him. She never txt back. After work I went to go buy skids their new baseball pants and socks for the season and txt her if she wanted me to go ahead and get a helmet she was planning on buying. She txt back that she would txt me in a bit she was at the dr. I said ok. I waited about 35 mins and never heard back from her so I just purchased the baseball pants and socks and left. I txt her and told her I got the pants for them and socks. Nothing.

Later last night she had never txt me back. So I sent her one last txt and just said even if you don't want us to get the skids we are still going to have to meet up sometime this week so I can give you their baseball pants for the season, since we obviously won't have practice. So plz get back on when that could happen. Nothing. Tried txting skids just to see if they had their phone with them but they never txt me back either.

So I look on Facebook for this weekend. And I see that BM was posting all weekend what she was doing, playing catch with the kids, bike riding, etc.. all weekend. So I don't believe the hospital thing.

NOW, I am not bothered by her not letting us seeing the kids on her time, well it bums us out but we knew when asking that she didn't have too so we had already come to terms with that. What is bothering me now is that she is flat out not communicating with us. I asked DH last night if she doesn't txt me back what was I suppose to do with their baseball pants that I have? Should I mail it too them? He said return them and have her buy them, that we would have proof that we at least tried to help out.

I know some ppl might say she might not have her phone on her at all times she just hasn't txt you back or something along those lines. But I know BM, she keeps her phone with her all the time. She just does.

I just don't know how this is going to work once we move and try to get visitation worked out while we wait for the temp to be done. Do we just leave that to our lawyer or still try through her. BM still has not been served, which I really thought she would be by now.

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Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Nicole	03/20/12 05:16 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	RJ1	03/20/12 03:51 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	ssmom79	03/20/12 10:40 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	M5M5	03/20/12 03:01 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LexieBelle	03/20/12 11:04 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 11:15 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Cassie23	03/20/12 11:53 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 12:05 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Cassie23	03/20/12 12:07 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 12:00 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	M5M5	03/20/12 03:11 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Cassie23	03/20/12 12:04 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	ssmom79	03/20/12 11:19 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	M5M5	03/20/12 03:07 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	ssmom79	03/20/12 11:10 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LexieBelle	03/20/12 11:38 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	ssmom79	03/20/12 11:57 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Cassie23	03/20/12 12:06 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 10:57 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	ssmom79	03/20/12 11:03 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	MrsB	03/20/12 10:47 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 10:59 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	ssmom79	03/20/12 11:04 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Nicole	03/20/12 09:01 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 09:13 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LexieBelle	03/20/12 09:18 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Nicole	03/20/12 09:17 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LexieBelle	03/20/12 09:19 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Nicole	03/20/12 09:21 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LexieBelle	03/20/12 09:05 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Cassie23	03/20/12 11:40 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	M5M5	03/20/12 03:09 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 11:55 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Nicole	03/20/12 09:14 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Cassie23	03/20/12 06:11 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Nicole	03/20/12 06:19 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	NikkiL	03/20/12 12:11 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Cassie23	03/20/12 07:11 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Nicole	03/20/12 07:23 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	MrsB	03/20/12 07:49 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	4Summer	03/20/12 07:31 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Cassie23	03/20/12 08:06 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 08:14 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Cassie23	03/20/12 08:37 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 08:48 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Cassie23	03/20/12 11:39 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Nicole	03/20/12 08:22 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Debi	03/20/12 06:47 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	MrsB	03/20/12 07:10 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 07:02 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	meganb	03/20/12 08:43 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/21/12 12:51 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Debi	03/20/12 07:14 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 07:24 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	MrsB	03/20/12 07:16 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Debi	03/20/12 07:27 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 07:42 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	M5M5	03/20/12 07:49 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	MrsB	03/20/12 08:27 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/21/12 12:58 PM
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Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	MrsB	03/20/12 07:41 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	M5M5	03/20/12 07:35 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Redlegg	03/20/12 08:36 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 09:39 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Nicole	03/20/12 09:44 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Tweeby	03/20/12 10:30 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Cassie23	03/20/12 11:45 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Tweeby	03/20/12 12:06 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 12:13 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Tweeby	03/20/12 12:27 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LeAnne	03/20/12 12:21 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 12:34 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LeAnne	03/20/12 01:07 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 01:17 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LeAnne	03/20/12 01:49 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 02:16 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LeAnne	03/20/12 02:28 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LexieBelle	03/20/12 02:04 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LeAnne	03/20/12 02:26 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LexieBelle	03/20/12 01:01 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 10:41 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 09:53 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	M5M5	03/20/12 02:59 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Nicole	03/20/12 10:27 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 08:28 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Nicole	03/20/12 08:45 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 08:53 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Nicole	03/20/12 09:04 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	onerose	03/20/12 09:11 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Nicole	03/20/12 09:15 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LexieBelle	03/20/12 09:15 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 09:21 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Nicole	03/20/12 09:20 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LexieBelle	03/20/12 09:30 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Nicole	03/20/12 09:33 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LexieBelle	03/20/12 09:44 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	onerose	03/20/12 09:18 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	M5M5	03/20/12 02:54 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LexieBelle	03/20/12 09:21 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	M5M5	03/20/12 02:56 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LexieBelle	03/20/12 03:17 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	M5M5	03/20/12 04:42 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	MrsB	03/20/12 04:56 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 05:01 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	cutiepie	03/20/12 05:09 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	MrsB	03/20/12 05:13 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	M5M5	03/20/12 04:57 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Reilly	03/20/12 05:34 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	M5M5	03/20/12 06:52 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Reilly	03/20/12 07:02 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	MrsB	03/20/12 07:00 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 07:06 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Reilly	03/20/12 07:07 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 07:13 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	M5M5	03/20/12 07:30 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Reilly	03/20/12 07:01 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	MrsB	03/20/12 05:01 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Reilly	03/20/12 05:39 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	cutiepie	03/20/12 05:14 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 04:34 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	finz	03/21/12 11:42 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	M5M5	03/22/12 12:25 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	spinnerdegrassi	03/21/12 11:48 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	finz	03/21/12 11:51 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	TruthPLEASEnoW	03/22/12 07:41 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	M5M5	03/20/12 04:46 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Cassie23	03/20/12 04:04 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Reilly	03/20/12 03:53 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Cassie23	03/20/12 04:07 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LexieBelle	03/20/12 03:56 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 04:14 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LeAnne	03/20/12 04:22 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 04:27 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LeAnne	03/20/12 04:52 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	SRS	03/20/12 04:58 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	M5M5	03/20/12 04:55 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LeAnne	03/20/12 04:36 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	MrsB	03/20/12 04:38 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	NikkiL	03/20/12 03:52 PM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LexieBelle	03/20/12 08:52 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Cassie23	03/20/12 08:40 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LexieBelle	03/20/12 08:49 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	LexieBelle	03/20/12 08:18 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	4Summer	03/20/12 05:38 AM
Re: Communication is going to be hard I think :(	Nicole	03/20/12 05:55 AM

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