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atwitsend27
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Re: need to see my boy

03/21/12 01:42 AM

We have a set in stone visitation schedule from a judge that says I get him for 10 days out of the month. She lives in Alabama I live in Missouri. I do ALL of the traveling (getting him and taking him back) plus, I pay her $492 dollars a month in child support. I have hired a lawyer in Alabama to get this resolved and hopefully a judge will see that I'm doing the leg work on EVERYTHING. I have had to work 54+ hours a week just to make these trips down and back every month just to see my son. She has since the end of January, 2012 denied me my visitation, and now she says I'm harassing her in the text messages that simply state "hi wondering if I could skype or talk to our son today" or I will email her and ask her if we can set up a time for me to come and get him and she replies with "I need atleast 2 weeks notice on all your visitations". Nowhere in our current court order does it state anything about 2 weeks notice. It says reasonable notice. If she had to do any of the traveling or pay for any of it, I could understand giving her notice, but when she doesnt even need to pack him a bag because I always have one on me that has his belongings in it (clothes, toys, snacks, ect.) that is just unreasonable for her to ask for 2 weeks notice. She has an older daughter that is 4 now that hasnt seen her biological father since she was 6 months old because her mother (my ex) put a restraining order on him. I spoke to her first childs father the other day and he informed me he has hired a lawyer to turn her in for kidnapping, because she never notified him/the commonwealth of virginia, that she was taking their daughter, my son, and now, her new born that she has with her current husband, to Alabama. Why cant social services get involved here and say wow, three kids by 3 different fathers, no stable home (she has moved 7 times in the past 2 years) and receiving child support from two different guys that adds up to be over $1,000/month combined. No job, and most importantly, denying her daughters father visitation, and now denying me visitation and going against a court order twice. I cannot wait until APRIL, when this all gets laid out on the table...right in front of a judge. I pray that he lets me have the visitation back she has taken away...and thank you guys very much for your info. Take care

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
need to see my boy	atwitsend27	03/19/12 12:39 AM
Re: need to see my boy	Goodmom	03/19/12 06:13 AM
Re: need to see my boy	Maury	03/19/12 08:30 AM
Re: need to see my boy	atwitsend27	03/21/12 01:42 AM
Re: need to see my boy	Debi	03/24/12 04:13 PM

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