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Nicole
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To clear it up...

03/21/12 05:15 AM

The other thread was getting crazy, so here it is:
DH did try to call BM yesterday. She didn't answer nor did she answer any texts he sent her yesterday. (I sent none to her) He tried calling skids phone. They did not answer. He txt BM again and said he wanted skids to call him. SS10 called he was at his uncles house. 2 hours later SS12 called, he had been at a friends house. When DH talked to SS12 he was with BM and he asked after he was done to talk to BM and she hung up the phone when he handed it to her. So, he tried.

DH never told me to communicate to BM. It happened gradually and just naturally. It became more of a constant thing with her and I when she left her husband and was living at her moms house with the kids. Because I had to ask her everyday where she would be to pick up skids after school.

I HAVE told DH before that he had to deal with BM on certain issues. Last year after she cussed me out via txt msg and then at a baseball practice, I told him he had to deal with her until she could handle herself. Told BM that as well. I told her that I would not allow someone to speak to me that way.

And srry SRS, but Cassie suggested the calling BM before you. When you posted a couple of posts in a civil way I responded the same.

And maybe because I have been gone for awhile but is LB, PM? That would make so much sense to me if thats the case.

Do I paint DH as a saint? No. I have come on here before and complained about him. That was the past. He stepped up. He changed. A lot. I would have lost my mind if he hadn't.

Also, DH did not just txt BM his idea for a visitation plan. He personally met with her last year to discuss it and give her a heads up about a possible move. HE met with HER, not me! He mainly sent the txt so he had proof of what he offered and that she turned it down. But the first mention of it was over lunch.

It bothers me that ppl on here are predicting the destruction of my marriage. I think it might make some of them happy but is sad that someone could even say it.

DO NOT feel sorry for me. I am a grown woman and I make my own decisions. If I was unhappy with DH I would not have married him or stuck by his side for 9 1/2 years. I can/will own up to my mistakes. But being with DH is not one of them.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
To clear it up...	Nicole	03/21/12 05:15 AM
Re: To clear it up...	Cassie23	03/21/12 09:48 AM
Re: To clear it up...	SRS	03/21/12 12:44 PM
Re: To clear it up...	Cassie23	03/21/12 01:00 PM
Re: To clear it up...	meganb	03/21/12 06:56 AM
Re: To clear it up...	Nicole	03/21/12 08:10 AM
Re: To clear it up...	LexieBelle	03/21/12 08:23 AM
Re: To clear it up...	M5M5	03/21/12 08:32 AM
Re: To clear it up...	LexieBelle	03/21/12 08:34 AM
Re: To clear it up...	Nicole	03/21/12 08:28 AM
Re: To clear it up...	LexieBelle	03/21/12 08:32 AM
Re: To clear it up...	Cassie23	03/21/12 12:05 PM
Re: To clear it up...	LexieBelle	03/21/12 12:22 PM
Re: To clear it up...	sampoe55	03/21/12 02:13 PM
Re: To clear it up...	LexieBelle	03/21/12 02:22 PM
Re: To clear it up...	Maury	03/21/12 02:25 PM
Re: To clear it up...	Loretta	03/21/12 07:27 PM
Re: To clear it up...	LexieBelle	03/21/12 07:45 PM
Re: To clear it up...	TruthPLEASEnoW	03/21/12 07:47 PM
Re: To clear it up...	LexieBelle	03/21/12 08:24 PM
Re: To clear it up...	elliesmom	03/21/12 02:39 PM
Re: To clear it up...	Miranda	03/21/12 03:31 PM
Re: To clear it up...	Cassie23	03/21/12 01:08 PM
Re: To clear it up...	Cassie23	03/21/12 12:55 PM
Re: To clear it up...	Nicole	03/21/12 08:35 AM
Re: To clear it up...	M5M5	03/21/12 08:42 AM
Re: To clear it up...	MrsB	03/21/12 09:10 AM
Re: To clear it up...	MrsB	03/21/12 06:52 AM
Re: To clear it up...	SRS	03/21/12 12:38 PM
Re: To clear it up...	Miranda	03/21/12 03:30 PM
Re: To clear it up...	MrsB	03/24/12 10:00 PM
Re: To clear it up...	M5M5	03/21/12 07:33 PM
Re: To clear it up...	MrsB	03/24/12 10:03 PM
Re: To clear it up... DELETED	MrsB	03/21/12 03:35 PM
Re: To clear it up...	Sampoe	03/21/12 03:37 PM
Re: To clear it up... DELETED	MrsB	03/21/12 03:47 PM
Re: To clear it up...	Sampoe	03/21/12 03:59 PM

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