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doingmybest
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Have no idea what to do.
      04/04/12 08:33 PM

Long story short...

Never married to the father of my son. When I got pregnant, he said get rid of it, broke up with me when I didn't, and told me he never wanted to see me or the baby. Fine with me, you can't make someone love or want thier child.

I moved back home to be near my family in another state for the remainder of the pregnancy and birth. I was allowed to telecommute at work.

Gave birth to my son 4 months ago and there were complications. He was in the NICU and it was touch and go. I let the father know and his text back was "maybe this is god's way of showing you that the baby should have never been born". I have not contacted him since.

My son was able to pull through and is now thriving :-)

I went back to where I used to live for 2 weeks to introduce the baby to friends and co-workers, and it seems the father somehow found out that I was back in town. A week into my vacation, I was served papers to establish paternity and he want's to be primary parent of our son. Found out that he want's to make sure I can't go after him for child support.

Can he do that? The baby and I are living in another state, Ohio. Can they make me return the baby to the father's state California?

Edited by doingmybest (04/04/12 09:41 PM)

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* Have no idea what to do. doingmybest 04/04/12 08:33 PM
. * * Re: Have no idea what to do. gr8Dad   04/05/12 10:57 AM
. * * Re: Have no idea what to do. doingmybest   04/05/12 01:39 PM
. * * Re: Have no idea what to do. gr8Dad   04/05/12 03:37 PM
. * * Re: Have no idea what to do. SweetLight   04/05/12 10:16 PM
. * * Re: Have no idea what to do. gr8Dad   04/06/12 02:56 AM
. * * Re: Have no idea what to do. JCB   04/08/12 01:32 PM
. * * Re: Have no idea what to do. gr8Dad   04/09/12 03:33 PM
. * * Re: Have no idea what to do. SweetLight   04/09/12 07:28 PM
. * * Re: Have no idea what to do. gr8Dad   04/09/12 07:39 PM
. * * Re: Have no idea what to do. SweetLight   04/09/12 08:18 PM
. * * Re: Have no idea what to do. gr8Dad   04/09/12 08:24 PM
. * * Re: Have no idea what to do. SweetLight   04/09/12 08:32 PM
. * * Re: Have no idea what to do. gr8Dad   04/09/12 08:34 PM
. * * Re: Have no idea what to do. SweetLight   04/09/12 08:56 PM
. * * Re: Have no idea what to do. gr8Dad   04/09/12 09:15 PM
. * * Re: Have no idea what to do. doingmybest   04/09/12 09:27 PM
. * * Re: Have no idea what to do. SweetLight   04/09/12 09:41 PM
. * * Re: Have no idea what to do. kkimberh   04/05/12 11:52 AM
. * * Re: Have no idea what to do. doingmybest   04/05/12 01:40 PM

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