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Re: drug testing to get cs?
      04/18/12 10:07 PM

I don't see an issue with it personally. My ex wanted me to piss in a cup for child support? Whatever. Now, I don't do drugs. I rarely, if ever, drink. So it's just not a concern for me.

I'm accepting money from the guy, that's SUPPOSED to be used for the child. If there's a concern about that money be used for drugs and NOT the child? I really don't see the issue with demanding testing. And those tests, if positive, should be a basis for change of custody quite frankly. Now I suppose that poses a quandary if BOTH the payee AND the payor are both druggies.

I've become pretty strict on the concept of people being accountable and not getting something for nothing etc etc. And I guess if you're not doing anything wrong (and yes, drug use IS ILLEGAL) then you've got no worries. If you are? Well.. not for nothing? You're doing something you're not supposed to be so why SHOULDN'T you be held accountable?

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* drug testing to get cs? SRS 04/18/12 09:10 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? googledad   04/19/12 11:55 AM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? gr8Dad   04/19/12 01:45 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? googledad   04/20/12 07:36 AM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? Gecko   04/19/12 12:14 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? googledad   04/19/12 12:31 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? Gecko   04/19/12 02:42 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? googledad   04/20/12 07:33 AM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? spinnerdegrassi   04/19/12 12:56 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? Gecko   04/19/12 10:19 AM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? LexieBelle   04/19/12 10:27 AM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? SRS   04/19/12 05:41 AM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? Redlegg   04/19/12 05:45 AM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? SRS   04/19/12 06:06 AM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? Redlegg   04/19/12 07:14 AM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? MinnesotaMom   04/18/12 11:12 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? LexieBelle   04/18/12 10:07 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? NikkiL   04/18/12 11:15 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? gr8Dad   04/18/12 09:24 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? Gecko   04/19/12 10:28 AM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? LexieBelle   04/19/12 10:35 AM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? gr8Dad   04/19/12 11:28 AM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? Redlegg   04/19/12 02:06 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? gr8Dad   04/19/12 02:44 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? Redlegg   04/19/12 03:30 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? LexieBelle   04/19/12 11:49 AM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? gr8Dad   04/19/12 01:47 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? LexieBelle   04/19/12 03:32 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? Runswithscissors   04/24/12 09:06 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? gr8Dad   04/19/12 04:36 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? LexieBelle   04/19/12 08:18 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? gr8Dad   04/19/12 08:26 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? LexieBelle   04/20/12 09:43 AM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? gr8Dad   04/20/12 12:38 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? finz   04/20/12 07:00 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? dadinva   04/23/12 04:50 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? gr8Dad   04/19/12 04:22 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? LexieBelle   04/19/12 08:17 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? Debbie_L   04/19/12 02:02 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? cutiepie   04/18/12 10:25 PM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? gr8Dad   04/19/12 12:03 AM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? LexieBelle   04/19/12 12:46 AM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? Redlegg   04/19/12 05:27 AM
. * * Re: drug testing to get cs? NikkiL   04/18/12 09:22 PM

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