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elliesmom
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Re: Summer school/baseball tourney

04/20/12 01:48 PM

I know that you both will try to minimize as much as you can the burden, but the fact is - you can only do so much. The circumstances (not lack of willingness on your part) are what are dictating how hard this will be for her. And she isn't starting from a position of extreme maturity and warm fuzzies for your DH.

I would be very leery given her history of this type of childish lack of communication type of revenge (which I am very familiar with, BM, FU very much) how far she will take it. I would start writing my LD parenting plan with her at her worst in mind. One thing DH kept getting wrapped up in "well what if we required XXXXX and she had a legitimate reason for not XXXX?" I had to remind him that having it written in there was INSURANCE. So WE (not her) got to decide what was/wasn't reasonable. She is gearing up for war (she spent how much money just to object to a move that WILL happen??) and you guys need to set aside your guilt and do the same to make sure you aren't run out of these kids lives. Its not about what she could/should do. Its about what she MUST do. And unless he has a piece of paper that says she must notify him within 48 hrs of receiving a sports schedule (or what have you) I would bet it aint gonna happen anymore.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Summer school/baseball tourney	Nicole	04/20/12 10:31 AM
Re: Summer school/baseball tourney	elliesmom	04/20/12 11:48 AM
Re: Summer school/baseball tourney	SRS	04/27/12 09:31 AM
Re: Summer school/baseball tourney	Nicole	04/20/12 12:27 PM
Re: Summer school/baseball tourney	Runswithscissors	04/28/12 07:59 AM
Re: Summer school/baseball tourney	elliesmom	04/20/12 01:48 PM
Re: Summer school/baseball tourney	Nicole	04/20/12 03:22 PM
Re: Summer school/baseball tourney	SRS	04/21/12 04:15 PM
Re: Summer school/baseball tourney	Debi	04/20/12 03:58 PM
Re: Summer school/baseball tourney	gr8Dad	04/20/12 04:16 PM
Re: Summer school/baseball tourney	Nicole	04/24/12 01:29 PM
Re: Summer school/baseball tourney	Debi	04/20/12 07:45 PM
Re: Summer school/baseball tourney	elliesmom	04/20/12 04:20 PM

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